And I feel like people always say shit like this bc (consciously or not) they think the seme is "the man" in the relationship and It pissed me off. Gay people dont work like that tf???? Relationships in general shouldn't work like that. Semes are always seen as abusers and shit for the same shit ukes do and don't get called out on it (9/10 it's by the people that think ukes should be small and effeminate ) ANYWAYS MY POINT IS IF YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT, YOU'RE A PIECE OF SHIT WHETHER OR NOT YOU'RE A SEME OR UKE OR EVEN LOOK LIKE THE MOST HARMLESS FUCKING CINNAMON ROLL.
(Idk if I worded that right so sorry if it's hard to understand. Just wanted to add my thoughts lol but yeah 100% agree. Bitches be saying "uwu my harmless baby cinnamon roll is so traumatized I feel so bad cry. He's only acting like this bc _____" like no he's a cunt, admit it)
Really? I think Im on a paradox here them kkk. The most stories that I read the seme usually are an ass like Alex, thats why I'm pissed with him now. I dont have a blindeye for asses ukes tho. But I like to see the asses ukes... They kind are out of the cliche, I think thats why most of us dont mind much when the ukes are being an assholes.
+10000
YES, thats exactly what im thinking, like gay relationships don’t work like that, they’re treating as if the uke is a girl (??)
This is an example as one of the readers with double standard. The cliche yaoi mangas are the one where the seme is in love with the uke first and chasing after him, or where the seme can’t get it up unless if it was with him. (if you’re not seeing this pattern then you’re new to yaoi) Take an example, the manga “lover boy”. The seme is in love with him and chasing after the uke and when finally they were dating, the uke suddenly was reminded of the past relationships. Or this manga called “see you again”, WHERE the seme is in love with the uke and they agreed to be on a fwb relationship And as usual, the “traumatizing ex” is coming. Honestly almost all yaoi plots are where theres a love triangle between seme - uke - seme but I haven’t seen one (or counted more than my fingers) that have plots with love triangles between uke - seme - uke.
I completely agree! People are such hypocrites! If Alex is being rude, then DG has every right to break off their deal. But he's so stupid and is continuing it and no one is saying anything about that. DG is as much at fault here as Alex.
I love you for you wording my thoughts so perfectly.
Both sides are clichéd tho ,
I think the seme being an ass is more clichéd even , since it is the typical douche type and the uke is the typical cute pure type , which is so typical , that doesn't degrade it BTW , I'm curious how the author would turn this situation into something new hopefully , the ending is yet to come , and besides the art already is unique and to me really stands out .....we shall wait and see then
isn’t the manga which is a cliche IS when the uke’s ex being an ass and traumatize him and try to get uke back when this manga is trying to be on a route when the seme’s ex actually being an ass and traumitize him? yall i had too much of the double standardness in yaoi community when its okay for the uke to be an ass but when the seme is being an ass everybody loses their mind. just my two cents lol