You're missing the entire point Donna, what does anything you just said have to do with her not talking to him calmly and breaking up with him. I'm not sure how many other angles you're going to try and take this from, but it's getting old, it's just strawman after strawman. What everyone is saying is that the WAY she handled the situation isn't okay, she made it seem like she was disgusted by his kink and dumped him. I'm not going over the sexual preference thing again, i'm starting to feel like i'm screaming into the void talking to you. Everyone agrees, she can have a preference, not an excuse to be like she was while dumping him.
But he didn't imagine Sangtae, not my opinion, fact... On page 1 he starts to finger his ass, no Sangtae here and on page 2 he has the thought "this feels like deja vu", he realizes the deja vu is Sangtae, gets embarrassed and then LITERALLY swats the memory cloud away. He wasn't "imagining" Sangtae, he was masturbating anally, thought it felt familiar, realized it was because of Sangtae and the fantasies, got embarrassed and then went back to masturbating anally without thinking of anyone. Point out where you see Sangtae anywhere while he's masturbating other than on pg 2 where he ONLY thinks about him for a second to place the deja vu.
If you have any reading comprehension, you can see that it's not that he's "anally masturbating while imagining Sangtae", he is just fingering his ass and wonders why the touch feels familiar, he realizes it's because Sangtae had fingered him before (hence the quick image of Sangtae) and gets embarrassed before he stops thinking about Sangtae and goes back to masturbating. I'd like to point out that he uses both hands to swat away the memory, meaning he stopped masturbating while he placed the deja vu. Look back.
...That was so childish, i mean that literally, that is something only children say and i've heard it from children before. Anyways, you're making it seem like it's obvious that he's thinking about Sangtae while masturbating, but i literally just proved that isn't the case and you can't provide anything to prove what you say. It's really not "obvious" at all, you just want to believe it is to the point that you'll ignore the story instead of admitting you're wrong. I'm really just beating the dead horse at this point...
The girlfriend wasn't aware that he was thinking about Sangtae, all that happened was she walked into her house and saw him masturbating with the toy. Rather than be a bit more understanding, and maybe even offer to help him out, she just dumped him on the spot. Maybe she thinks wanting anal sex means a person has a specific sexual orientation, maybe she just was looking for any excuse to get out of their relationship because he was becoming more stressed and she was losing patience, it's not very clear so far.
Yes! I learned this in 6th grade. It is like sampling, 10 or more different people are averaged and you basically get an idea.
there's more then 25 men on earth just because the ones that you have dated didn't like it doesn't mean there aren't plenty of others who do, your life experience does not equal everyone else's maybe you just have a certain type have you thought about that? it really all depends on who you gravitate more towards take this for example say that out of 5 guys 3 of them cheated on you it's because you have a type most likely the "mysterious" dudes or whatever it's a certain person that you gravitate towards why do you think people who grew up in abusive homes tend to fall for abusive people it's all a big circle of life experiences so you don't gravitate towards dudes who like anal and are straight, good for you guess? But that doesn't mean others don't.
I know a lot of people are gonna find this weird but a lot of guys feel more sensations in their ass so it's really likely you'll date someone one day who'll maybe be kinda interested in you topping them but sometimes they don't ever tell you or they're too homophobic to even think it's a possibility anyways it happens a lot so just putting that out there it's completely normal and no it does not mean they're gay but some might be so just keep all of that in mind.