pads

Right? Whenever I read it I was indifferent to it. My actual reaction was: “okay.” And I kept on reading. I honestly didn’t think anything of it until I read all of these comments super pissed off aboit the whole ordeal

yeah like, its a piece of absorbent material with adhesive on one side... ladies... chill... you're not being personally attacked...

I think it's more about how Jinwoo feels like he's being treated like a woman and that a pad is something usually associated with feminine things... So from that point of view I can see if as offensive but there's no way to tell that Sangtae is thinking that way unless he actually says so. He might just be trying to help and not realize the feminine associations that pads have could offend Jinwoo... So yeah it can easily be seen as something offensive and as something non offensive especially since we don't know what exactly Sangtae was thinking.

My thought before reading these comments was “oh that’s practical” now I’m like uh hmmmm

I guess is because we don't know if he was trying to be helpful or not by giving a pad, the bottom think the top was looking down on him because they are in this crazy sexual relationship and that's how some man act with some women they fuck, like they are some bitches and they can do whatever they want, since the top is into BDSM the bottom is thinking he is probably just a toy on his hands idk and people got mad at how women are portrayed and the situation the bottom is experiencing

Except with the way he's always treated Jinwoo I would definitely say that he meant to imply that Jinwoo is his 'b****'.