Discussion: Soulmates

ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 8:40 am

Do you guys believe in soulmates?
And if yes, do you think the relationship between soulmates HAVE to be romantic?

I have a friend, well, now my best friend really, who is a guy.
We attended (we are graduating) the same class for 4 years at high school (we are now 18) and ever since the 1st grade everybody said that he liked me. We became friends instantly but we weren't really close, just had some things in common.
Well, we started to get to know each other more and more and everybody kept asking me whether I like him romantically because it was obvious to them that he had feelings for me. I told them I didn't, but I guess nobody believed me and they just kept 'shipping' us I guess.
Our story really started in 3rd grade when he suddenly confessed to me on a party. I was slightly drunk (I'm not sure about him) and we talked for hours. I apologised for not being able to return his feelings and we actually stayed friends because he said that even if we couldn't be together, he wanted to stay friends.
From that moment we ACTUALLY were honest with each other, like we literally told each other everything. Today he is the one who knows me the best and likewise I guess.

The reason why I'm asking this is that I cannot imagine my days without him, but I also know that I can't love him romantically.
So basically, I think he is my soulmate, but not romantically.

Question is: do you guys think that it's possible?

Responses
    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 8:06 pm
    He is so mature that he still want to be friends.I just happy for you. I hope you two always being together and have a good memories :) Blu

    Aw, thank you Blu! :) That's really nice of you :)

    ThePurplePaladin June 4, 2018 8:07 pm
    well, if you look at my history on the browser... I would say... I dont believe in soulmate @Anonymous

    Lool, well :D

    Emihue June 4, 2018 9:44 pm
    In my country we have 8 years in elementary school and then 4 or 5 years in high school depending on what you specialize in :) I'm in the English spec class which is 4 years and 3rd grade is the same as 11th gr... ThePurplePaladin

    Oh ok thank you for clarifying!!! anyways beautiful story of friendship :)