So true!
Most homosexual couples are actually flex and even when they do have their preferences, it is definetly not based on "whoever looks more like a woman".
I don't think it is wrong for us women to like Yaoi.
But to keep staring at real gay couples walking on the streets or start fights setting RULES for adequate top/bottom behaviour is actually VERY VERY WRONG. Fujoshis some times act like they actually OWN male-male couples. Other bad thing is throwing hate ate female characters. And the worst fujoshi shit-like behaviour is to forgive rape.
Reading your comment made me feel refreshed
Tbh I am quite pissed with a lot of comments. Top or bottom is a preference that has little to do with looks or character. Don't hate on the characters because they don't fit your fetish or expectations. If a big, hunky man wants to be fucked in the ass by a small sissy than that is just as valid as the reverse. Maybe less common in the Yaoi world but who are we to judge. We get this amazing love stories, so we need to realize that top/bottom Uke/Seme roles is a concept we made up and it doesn't exist that strongly in the real world. Switching is valid, either as a pair or the classic roles based on looks. I personally find it fascinating and it gives the stories more bite, makes them more memorable. Mangago is a site for yaoi as love stories. If you want gay sex as porn please visit a porn site to satisfy your fetishes - there you can even sort for things like a crossdressig top, or even ban it.