100% agree with you but the thing is Yaoi is pretty much porn made for japanese girls thats why they force this uke/seme thing into the manga so those girls can somehow feel related to the Uke since they can never be a seme (unles they wear a strapon LOL) thats also why there are tons of yaoi out there where the uke is pretty much a girl in a man's body wich is annoying af. Things are getting better nowadays tho, there are a lot more seke couples and manly ukes then it used to be
Oh ya! One of my favorite couples has a scene where the uke is being harassed for being gay and he beats up the guy, then the seme comes in and they beat him up together. I normally don’t like fights but the whole uke handeling himself and the working together made me really happy. (Then again I don’t know actually who has what position, but either way both are strong characters)
I love this one http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mazu_wa_ubaiai/
this one if you can handle cheating http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mukizu_ja_irarenee/
this one is very close to seke(to me it is seke but maybe im imagine too much) http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_m_not_your_stepping_stone/
super hot seke(this one aint flufy nor romantic so if you're really into romance dont read) http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/innai_kansen/
since they are all old you probably already read them all ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ but who knows maybe you get lucky. Have fun
sometimes i just wish if both characters are originally seme, they'd just be a seke couple. I know yaoi is a terrible reflection on actual gay relationships but always needing to be forced into seme,uke roles gets old.Though some people prefer such specific roles in real life too.