ok so

momokuni May 18, 2018 10:06 am

even though i love yuyang a lot, he's kind of being a total asshole. how about listening to the other side of the story first, instead of just assuming things off the top of your head? i understand that he naturally has a disposition to be more distrusting, because of his sexuality, but honestly like the level of ridiculous this misunderstanding is is just-

im /really/ losing my patience here.

Responses
    FuTrash88 May 18, 2018 10:15 am

    I mean... he's not suspicious because he's gay. He's suspicious because he got screwed in the past

    Yumin May 18, 2018 10:59 am

    Yuyang's behavior is actually realistic. He let his emotion devoured him thats why hes being like that. Just imagine youre in his shoes, you saw someone you trusted and betray you. Its not about if its true or not, its about what he feel when he saw that scene. He was hurt, angry and sad. He cant think straight so he ended up doing things like that. I know LiHuan is hurt, but Yuyang is too. He has bad experience thats why hes trying to build a wall so nobody can hurt him. If you dont try to think in his perspective, youll never understand him. Forget Lihuan for a moment, imagine youre yuyang in that situation.

    momokuni May 18, 2018 10:27 pm
    Yuyang's behavior is actually realistic. He let his emotion devoured him thats why hes being like that. Just imagine youre in his shoes, you saw someone you trusted and betray you. Its not about if its true or... Yumin

    Right, if I were in Yuyang's shoes, I'd try to /talk/ about the situation, not just assume things and let the misunderstanding get even bigger. So, yes, I am trying to think from Yuyang's perspective actually, and it still is unrealistic and obnoxious imo so.

    Yumin May 19, 2018 2:04 am

    Try to think as Yuyang. Not yourself in that situation lol I think you havent meet people like Yuyang in real life. I have friends that acts like him so I find it normal and I have seen relationship breaks bc of misunderstanding. Yuyang is just probably really the emotional type of person.