If its a rape play only Alex knew they are playing lol. Rape play is when both sides agree to do that
But it’s also fictional. Not real life. In real life you would have to give consent before rape play but in fiction you don’t have to because no real people are getting hurt. You can portray your desires through fiction like how the author did. Once again the people you read about aren’t real people they are drawlings that the author made to portray his or her desire. I think it’s pretty hot and no ones actually getting hurt. Now if I was watching porn of real life people I would like to know wether they agreed on rape play or not but once again this isn’t real liked they are drawlings that’s are going by a script or format their feelings don’t exist at all.
I'm not sure why I'm seeing the "rape" when it's about DG and Jiwon. They made a prior agreement to have sex with each other. When they get together, that is what they do. When clothing comes off, sex will happen. Do fictional characters really need to constantly give consent during sex to keep it non-rape? My mind is being boggled!
Honestly I don’t think fictional characters technically need it but I do think people should realize stop means stop even in fiction that’s rape. Though I do believe we shouldn’t be shamed for enjoying it. Because once again they just don’t exist. If we want to like and fantasy about rape and portray it in fiction why not? It’s not gonna stop me from likeing the thought of myself being raped or forced if you tell me I’m bad for liking it. Cause at the end of the day I’m still gonna get off to that thought and do rape play with my boyfriend and there’s nothing anybody can do about it.
Rape can happen even in marriage. It's always rape when someone ignore "NO". No matter if he's a boyfriend, or husband, no matter if there was permission for sex 5 seconds ago. Stop is stop and not stoping is a abuse. It's not right when DG was begging to stop, he said he's scared. He agreed to have sex that should give him orgasms not scare him off. Making rapes cute or romantic is a really problem in yaois. People should know it's bad unless charas are into bdsm like couple from Bloodbank for example.
Once again that won’t stop me from having a kink for rape play. Sorry to tell you this but some people fantasy of being raped and there are people in this world who fantasy of raping. You saying that we are romanticizing it isn’t gonna stop our fantasy’s. Also once again THEY DONT EXIST. THEIR FEELINGS ARENT REAL. THEY ARE DRAWLINGS POTRAYING THE DESIRES OF A ARTIST. if you don’t like the manga then guess what? theres a bunch of manga out there that aren’t potraying rape in them. If you are so against rape then why even stay?
I'm not telling you to stop fantasy of being raped. I'm just telling rape in relationship isn't the same thing as rape play. In SM sex people usually agree for having a safe word. You know why? Because hardcore sex can be dangerous, especially anal one. Alex and DG didn't make any safe word or anything. You use a "rape play kink" definition as something you want to do(or you already doing), not "rape". I bet you rather experience being forced to sex, orgasm and pain than being forced to uncomfortable pain, fear and ending up in the hospital. Because that's difference.
Yes, they are fictional characters they don't exist. But sometimes people cry when fictional characters die. Sometimes there are happy when their OTP become canon. Sometimes they are feeling nervous when character is in danger. So I'm the one who feel bad when character is abused. I read this manga because I like camboys, but I'm gonna stop because of last chapters. I stayed here only for comments.
Ah and to make it clear. I'm not shaming you for liking rape play or any other kink. I'm into bdsm myself. I'm just saying that rape =/= rape play. Dg and Alex aren't playing. It's real rape there lol
I know they aren’t.In drawlings you don’t have to have consent. That’s kinda the point of a rape fantasy.
That's ok but don't tell that DG and Alex are doing "rape play" because they don't. That's why I've started a whole discussion with you xD Not because you like rape or whatever. You misunderstanding definitions. For example Momo in Yatamomo by Harada admitted that he makes Yata mad so he's more rough with him and he likes it. Or Shell from Bloodbank was clearly playing with One. DG had his inner thoughts that he's scared and he don't like it. It's not a play when he's not enjoying it
Crying kinda really turns me on. So does forcibleness but y’all need to stop victim blaming like??? I like rape play and all but like y’all are serious when you say shit like he asked for it. It’s a bit frustrating cause I just wanna enjoy the smut but your either blaming the victim or getting mad at other readers for thinking the smuts hot. Just enjoy the manga or leave.