Talk to him and see if it goes anywhere. Not by text. Actually talk. To. Him. In person.
i cant bring myself to talk to him. its awkward enough to see him in person. Not when i was already 'rejected'. Not when he tried to give an apologetic smile (from my viewpoint tho im not really sure)
If you had the courage to confess to him, then have that courage to talk to him. So what if you're already rejected? So what if he gave you an apologetic smile? What if all of those were just the things you expected him to give you that's why you interpret his actions like as if you're rejected?
If you don't talk to him now it wouldn't give you any peace of mind. And if in the end he rejected you at least you have that closure in yourself, you're not guessing what's what. It will surely give you a peace of mind.
Yup, that.
Don't turn your life into bad comedy romance. If he doesn't like you he'll tell you and you'll be able to move on. If he does, then, super good. Otherwise you'll be stuck in a will they won't they situation, just with you in the middle. It can also affect the rest of your relationship.
Do yourself a favor, and save yourself the mistake of letting it go (ignoring your problems doesn't help any). Communication is key in everything.
And yes, I'm talking from (very painful) experience here.
i do! i do want to!! ╥﹏╥ but all of my courage have gone away when i confessed to him ╥﹏╥ and i just dont know how to start. and he doesnt seems like he want to start things ╥﹏╥
it would give me a peace of mind but i might be broken more that i thought i would be and i just dont want to go through that. it hurts ╥﹏╥ this much had also hurt me so much ╥﹏╥
Start by creating the opportunity to be alone with him and then just blurt it out. If he'd a good person he'll try not to hurt you even if he's rejecting you.
It's way more unfair/painful what you're doing to yourself here!
Talk to your friends, ask them to help you two to get some alone time. Since you said he's talking to your friends right? Then make it happen. If you want it you can have many ways to be alone with him.
If you're afraid to get hurt, then you have no right to love someone. Love and hurt can never be separate from each other, it comes hand in hand so if you choose one then get ready for the second one. And being broken doesn't last long, i'm speaking from experience. You might be broken now but someone will or even you yourself will make you heal and be a perfect piece of art again.
Just have the courage, don't let this opportunity go. You'll regret it. Don't let overthinking overrule your decisions.
I agree with you!
*sigh* i'll try...its gonna be hard tho cuz i lost all kinds of contact i had with him but i'll try...definitely will try to look for a chance. Cuz tvh i too want to hear what exactly he wanted to say that night ┗( T﹏T )┛
The second paragraph really hitsyeah...guess i have to accept whatever outcomes it is and better let it clear than being stuck in questions by myself(￣∇￣")thank you guys! Thank you so much for giving some solution and clear my heads out from thisThank you too @Semyzza
Yaaaaassss girl!! That's the spirit! ヾ(☆▽☆) I hope everything will turn out well for you ╮(￣▽￣)╭ but if not, just remember that @Semyzza and me will be cheering for you!! Don't lose hope okay? You can do it (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Thank youu pray for me that it'll all turn out good
It'll be! Just be positive! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
GUYS, please help me out i'm at my wits end...so, i dont want this to turn into a novel so i'll just go straight to the point. So, my crush is the type that is SO HARD TO REPLY TO TEXTS AND STUFFS. like the usual type where they've read and wanted to reply but then got distracted by other stuffs that he would eventually forgot to reply (at least that what i have been told to by himself).
And so, i confessed to him. Took a whole loads of courage. Really. That was the first time i have the courage (see how much i want him?hahahahahaha) but then was only replied where he asked me if i was busy BUT FUCK ME I WAS ASLEEP AT THAT TIME! IT WAS LATE AT NIGHT LIKE SERIOUSLY!!! I replied the next morning and i was left hanging since then.
New semester and we finally bummed (and will always do in the future i guess). He tried to smile but i was making bitchy face at first but i finally started to give him a little even if it hurts me so bad to see him now. And till now, i've heard him had somewhat already talked to every each of my friends EXCEPT ME. YEAH AND THAT FUCKIN' HURTS I'M ABOUT TO CRY ALREADY NOW.
should i really keep on hoping and try to amend our r/ship or its obvious? that he rejected me?╥﹏╥