I completely agree with you and there shouldn't be any "buts".
Neither of them did anything wrong. It's not wrong to give your best at making it hurt less. Betrayal and the fear of going through the familiar pain again is just too painful. (Sorry, I just relate to Yuyang so much it hurts when people accuse him of being heartless/not thoughtful. Life is harsh and we all find our way to deal with the pain. There's no one out there who knows more what's best for you than you yourself.)
yes!! i dont really blame any of them. the circumstances suck tho
i totally understand yuyangs reasoning; the fear and betrayal that he doesnt want to experience again caused him to act rashly but its totaly understandable!! ppl are complex and multifaceted, theres more to yuyang than what he lets out so seeing this builds his character up more
and dont get me wrong theres nothing to blame on lihuans part lmao
i think some of you guys are being really harsh on yuyang... dont yall realise that he doesnt see lihuan like how the readers do??? we KNOW lihuan, yuyang is only starting to get to know lihuan so its really understandable why he would react that way!! he was betrayed and i doubt he was never bullied before for being gay so hes doing what he can to make it hurt less
also, yuyang isnt in love with lihuan yet and he doesnt owe him anything in that department. yuyang has been hung up over linxiang for like a year iirc so hes in a fragile state and it kills me to see him feel betrayed and have a dream about the man who rejected him on the same nignt