Ppl who still r blaming Eunho for treating Jaeha the same way he treated Eunho,let me remi...

But I don't recall jaeha being rude to eunho
And the age difference doesn't work like that
How is it the same ?
U don't even know why jaeha did yet , and he only pushed him away , he didn't treat him rudely ,he broke up with him , so if he was to do the same , eunho should break up with him ...

Rough translation to what eunho will tell jaeha " I did the same as those ppl did to you" ..

So what if the age matters? That doesn’t mean Jaeha didn’t do anything wrong
Oh I know why he did that because he was scared of HIMSELF getting hurt
And again,he was the one who asked Eunho what he can do to make him feel better
U think it’s okay if Eunho gets hurt because he agreed to being sex buddies but it works the same about Jaeha too
And Eunho knows what he’s doing,probably If he hadn’t known,Jaeha would’ve been kept being a shitty person for his entire life while regretting his actions and hurting more people

U can say that whatever u want but I can’t ignore Jaeha’s mistakes just because he’s the weaker one
And hurting others just because u had bad experiences is unjustifiable
All Jaeha did was hurting Eunho and ignoring it while Eunho tried fixing their relationship

OK so the agreement was about having sex not being rude ,
So jaeha was doing hus part of the deal but eunho wasnt

the fact that u made it as eunho was doing "what he pleases " to make himself feel better as jaeha asked makes eunho even worse , if u think that eunho likes it while being rude to jaeha , or find any consolidation in the matter and still like him then either a) u r so weird for liking him having a blast about treating a hyung like that and more importantly ,b) u don't get eunho at all ..

He is venting his anger of circumstances into what he sees as cause without understanding , and age does matter a big deal in Korea FYI , it is really a big deal there ,


Jaeha kept cuz he loved him , he threw hints at him for him to come back , but not cuz of rudeness but due to persistence , and not letting go ,

I really can't see jaeha wrong at all , considering circumstances , u chose to ignore the method justifying it for the sake of the greater end , something I can't tolerate , it is the communication and treating each other right is what all relationships about , seeing them not communicating due to jaeha is the only wrong thing jaeha did in my point of view , other than that , the illness in communication and treating each other is eunho's

U said it urself darling , hurting others cuz u r hurt isn't justified , isn't that literally what eunho does ?
Jaeha didn't mean to hurt him , he pushed him away and broke up with him , and considering him being an equal part of the relationship , he has every right to do so ,

So Jaeha’s actions r justifiable because he’s older? That means I can play around with anyone just because i’m older than some ppl
And no;he didn’t say he should be rude to him,but he said ‘do whatever you please’ and Eunho was just honest
Plus;he wasn’t rude at all
Isn’t it what Jaeha said before? Well I guess I know where Eunho learned to be rude
Yes,Eunho isn’t the best character in the world,he annoys me because he’s super clingy and he should’ve just gone when Jaeha rejected him instead of acting like a 12 years old boy and chasing after someone like him who is a selfish person and can’t get his thoughts together
And everything I said applies to Jaeha as well
and do you thing Jaeha treated Eunho right before? Despite the fact he knew Eunho has feelings for him he still played with his feelings and then just broke up and didn’t even bother to tell him and be honest with him,not only Eunho but also his ex
He used his ex as a sex and comfort tool
So I can’t really see him innocent in this case
Because he’s a jerk and that’s a fact
He needs to talk instead of hiding and playing around with people
And if he has the right to easily break someone who’s been in love with him for YEARS and been treated like trash by the person they love,Eunho has the right to be ‘rude’ to Jaeha too
And stop justifying Jaeha’s actions
He’s not an innocent baby
He hurt many people because he had bad experiences and thanks to him,now at least three people have bad experiences
If you have bad experiences in your life;go and play with people’s emotions
But nobody has the right to treat you the same way and if they do,it’s a taboo
Sounds like the right thing to do
And Eunho is an idiot for chasing after a jerk like Jaeha

U know I really wish someone would treat him the same way , the same way of always letting go of him instead of being chased after

It is not the same , what eunho did and what jaeha did is actually the opposite , one is letting go and one is forcing in
Stop saying it is the same cuz it is not even close , he isn't treated the same way he treated eunho at all ,

If I broke up with someone , and he agreed to become just a sex partner , no he doesn't have the right to be rude to me , nor has the right to ask about my affairs since he agreed to be a sex partner and we r no longer in a . Relationship ,
The sex scenes were made as a force of venting and really the sense of guilt u r talking about , the one that made jaeha say what u r so gladly pointing out is out of responsibility , and eunho taking it like that is plain childish ,

I don't say he didn't hurt anyone , but I'm saying what could he possibly do ? If I tried to change and couldn't , it isn't playing with ppl's emotions , it is feature a failed attempt of change ,

U clearly don't know how big of a deal age is in Korea , it is even in the form of speech , it is hard to explain , but if u know kdrama and kpop u will get it ,

What did jaeha did to eunho other than pushing him away , and getting back together and then breaking up ? Doesn't that look like failed attempts to u ? That isn't playing with emotions , rather he would be playing with both of their emotions , it isn't , it is trying and failing and being reminded with previous hindrance



Honestly just wait for next chapters , whoever side u may choose , they will get together , I'm tired and u won't understand ..

Jaeha has feelings for Eunho yet he keeps breaking his heart and as you said ‘lets go’
But about the sex partners part I have to say they were in a relationship when Jaeha decided to break up because he didn’t want himself to get hurt and I don’t really think he was thinking about Eunho
We all know they were in a relationship when they broke up i don’t really know why people who are justifying Jaeha’s actions keep ignoring some parts of the story
And what did you expect? Being sex partners isn’t a great idea specially when you know the person has feelings for you and doesn’t want to be treated like sex toy but does it and takes everything just to be with you,but Jaeha did that and you’re justifying that. It was actually painful for Eunho. You’re saying Jaeha said that out of responsibility and Eunho shouldn’t be mad at all,but you’re JUSTIFYING Jaeha’s actions by ‘being sex partners’
And that’s unfair,because people don’t understand Eunho at all and they expect him to treat Jaeha like a princess ( plus,he just did as he pleased and they agreed to it but Jaeha can’t take it,the situation is the same when Jaeha decided to like Eunho’s dick and be sex fiends and just because Eunho agreed to that doesn’t mean he wasn’t hurt. And i’m just reminding you that )
And that has nothing to do with breaking people’s heart. The ex absolutely was a comfort/sex toy for him,while they were in a RELATIONSHIP
And if he was that nice,he wouldn’t get involved in a sex buddies relationship
And yes I know they get together and I said before I read the raws and everything,but right now I’m just answering people who are hateful towards Eunho and they ignore it completely when Jaeha was a jerk

And well that’s the only difference
But in the past Jaeha used to use Eunho as a dick
Now what’s the problem if Eunho uses him as a hole?

They're both walking a fine line. It's important to remember that the depth of Eunho's feelings have blinded him in more ways than one. Jaeha recognizes that even still after their split, Eunho is deeply in love with him. That kind of unconditional love is terrifying when taking into account that Jaeha is worried Eunho would go to any length for him (including sacrificing himself in the process). After all Eunho has suffered through because of Jaeha's indecisiveness, Jaeha doesn't feel he has the right to do further harm. The underlying problem is that Jaeha doesn't trust himself not to hurt Eunho ever again. He couldn't continue their relationship because he knows himself. Jaeha knows that his first instinct will always be to run away from his problems.

Eunho recognizes Jaeha's deep-seated fear at being abandoned, however he's still missing the part where Jaeha is weary after everything. He's tired of the hurt- hurt that he believes will drag Eunho down with him eventually. It's not a matter of Jaeha or Eunho intentionally being selfish. Eunho is using the fact they still have feelings for each other to corner Jaeha because in his mind he thinks he can wear him down. Does Jaeha treating Eunho unfairly justify the reciprocation? That's debatable, but it's undeniable that they're both struggling as is.

Everything you said is true
What I was trying to say that both of them deal with different problems and both of them made mistakes,not only Eunho
But people are making it look like Eunho is some kind of demon or something

U said it all
Instead of blaming jaeha , try to see how scared he is ,

Then u need to see how painful it was for Eunho
And stop blaming ONLY Eunho
Both of them made mistakes
And ppl r making excuses when it comes to Jaeha but not Eunho?

U see
Eunho is hurt , but his hurt isn't even comparable to jaeha
Being rejected by a person ,knowing they love u back , not knowing the reason , but knowing the other one tried but scared
Is far less severe than being abandoned and left out and stigmatized and whatever happened in jaeha's past

I didn't make what eunho went through any less , but knowing the other person is scared yet doing all that is selfish too

U see in the relationship , if one has trouble being in the relationship , be it something in him , be it something in his partner , be it his fears of not committing , be it what ever , he has the right to stop it , u see , it is mutual , both for eunho and jaeha

Eunho acts like jaeha has to be with him , no other choice like it is obligatory for them both to be together just cuz they love each other , which is really childish and simple thinking , but only shows how deeply he loves jaeha that blinds him even from giving jaeha the choice he deserves ,

Yeah jaeha tried to work it out but failed leaving hints for eunho to keep chasing him , giving eunho the choice to let him go or chase after him , not wanting to take the full lead for the relationship , wearing the ring , and doing and I quote "I will only run away as far as u can catch me" , he will tell him that later , which explains all the things jaeha did was only giving eunho the choice either to let go or continue , he mad eunho the one choosing , of course eunho 's persistence saved jaeha but u see

Lately he became aggressive , u guys called it a payback , while I found it ungratefulness , it is like he took a chance of being the one who chooses , just to hurt him (he will say he only wanted to shirt while crying later ) ,
It is really childish and human and unjustified ,
My problem is that u guys justified that
I never said eunho can't make mistakes , but u guys were actually happy while he made them

Both were blinded , one by fear and one by love , but I see someone abusively took it to force his way in , (u know jaeha DOESNT HAVE TO BE WITH EUNHO , just cause eunho loves him right?, it doesn't work like that ) and one was letting go ,
U say u know why he did , which will be clarified later so I won't stress on that

I am still not seeing how jaeha hurt eunho badly to that point ,
From day 1 , jaeha was reluctant and eunho knew it , knew him , knew all this , knew he feared , knew everything except the reasons for him to be like that ,

My problem , ?
I don't see how a person who tries to deal with his inner whatever flaws in whatever method being a bad thing , like if he was a coward , what is wrong with running away ? If he is scared , what is wrong with all that , he fears that them being apart will hurt less than being together ,
He sees it that way , whatever hurt eunho throws at him will be less than what will happen when they r together , be it for himself, society or whatever , he sees it that way , which is understandable ,
U know if he didn't try to actually be with eunho , I would have been with u , but he tried and failed ,
I don't know , I just see from where jaeha is coming from and eunho scares the shit out of me although I loved him first ,

If he has the right to use ppl as sex toys and then get scared and throw them away without giving a shit about their feelings ( which is selfish,if u r too coward to have a relationship,then don’t because ppl r NOT sex toys ),then Eunho has the right to do on Jaeha whatever he wants when Jaeha tells him ‘do whatever you please’ and ppl who r on Jaeha’s side r completely ignoring the fact Jaeha asked him to do whatever he pleases
And yet,he’s sad
See,he can’t even take responsibility of what he says and does,he’s obviously too irresponsible to keep a relationship with someone because all he cares about is himself being scared,and not the fact Eunho has been by his side all his life and ignores the fact Eunho loves him and has been loving him for a long time,yet all he cares about is his own fear without considering people’s emotions
Same thing happened to his ex and ex wife,they were all play things or some sort of comfort tool for him to run away
And honestly,you don’t understand Eunho at all
This is a realistic manhwa which all the characters have their own problems and it’s not a manhwa where the seme is a perfect gentleman and sweet and has nothing to do but treat the uke like like a princess no matter what kind of irresponsible,ignorant and selfish person the uke is
And it’s way more painful to be in love with someone PASSIONATELY for YEARS and see him loving someone else and getting married and take it all without showing your sadness,and then being used as a sex toy and being thrown away by an irresponsible and selfish person you lover all your LIFE
That’s why I don’t think you understand him,but if this happens to you,I bet you’ think about it more carefully
It’s way more painful than being in a relationship with your stupid professor and being hurt in a less than 6 months relationship and being slapped by your father once because of being gay ( the funny thing is he goes around and uses people however he pleases and when he finds out he’s too irresponsible to have a serious relationship with someone,simply throws them away )
And yeah Eunho didn’t do the right thing,if I had to deal with an irresponsible jerk like Jaeha who only cares about his own feelings and doesn’t consider other people,I’d just leave him be ( though that’s hard for someone who’s been in love for his LIFE )

Plus,in a relationship both ppl should care about each other and value each other
Jaeha always wants Eunho to chase after him,but all he does is throwing him away and enjoying Eunho chasing after him
Because why not,he’s a ‘princess’ and ppl should chase after him to be able to have a normal relationship with them and act like a puppy but doesn’t see the person he ‘loves’,worthy enough to at least be honest with them and chase after them ONCE in life

Lol I’m happy to see that because Jaeha was a jerk and nothing’s better than seeing jerks being treated the way they treat people and use people as dicks,comfort tools,ect
I’m really sorry if I’m mean and I hope u don’t get offended by my language,but I can’t sympathize with people who use people as dicks and comfort tools,then throw them away without thinking a little bit about their feelings
And again,Eunho shouldn’t have chased after someone who doesn’t see him worthy enough to at least consider about his feelings
So yeah
Jerks get what they deserve

Plus,WE know why Jaeha did that ( because he needed someone to chase after him lol)
But Eunho doesn’t and honestly if I had to deal with someone who doesn’t give a single shit about me and just wants someone by his side and chase after him happily like a puppy,i’d be mad too but definitely I wouldn’t chase after him anymore
Because a relationship should be two sided and both people should try to help each other and care about each other,but in this case,Eunho was the one who cared about him and ALWAYS chased after Jaeha yet even though Jaeha knew he’s gonna hurt Eunho badly and ‘loved him’,he did all he could to make Eunho chase after him
And even if u insist Jaeha isn’t a jerk,we can’t deny he feels zero responsibility ( if he wasn’t feeling guilty for hurting Eunho,I’d say he’s a sociopath for sure.Honestly the only thing that makes him different from a sociopath is feelings guilty and just it )
And i’m not expecting u to completely understand what u haven’t experienced,but if u have a lover or a boyfriend/girlfriend u might be able to imagine how painful it would be if they treat u like a sex toy and throw u away over and over again just to enjoy seeing u trying hard to get them and chase after them and hurt u over and over again,but not for months or even years,for your LIFE
If that’s easy for u and u won’t feel a bit upset about being treated like trash,then u’re a very rare person in this world ( no offense i’m not saying it in a bad way )
So u’re saying it’s okay if Jaeha uses people as sex toys and makes them chase after him? Then what’s the problem if Eunho does what he’s asked too? U say it’s okay if Jaeha uses people as sex toys,but it’s not okay if Eunho does the same?
People who r on Jaeha’s side have no idea how painful it is,and being treated like trash isn’t something ‘normal’ and ‘okay’ in relationship
He doesn’t have to be with people,but what he does is using people and calling it ‘love’ and then throws them away when he’s scared
If it’s okay and normal,then I think what Eunho does is normal too ( after all Jaeha was the one who asked him to do that ) he was just honest,it’s Jaeha’s problem if he can’t take responsibility of his actions and words
It’s like selling a house to someone and then say ‘I sold the house to u anyway,but u don’t have the right to live in the house and u’re an asshole if u live in this house I sold )
And there’s nothing wrong with using people as dicks and comfort tools as u say,then I think u should experience it yourself to understand it
I don’t really understand people who r on Jaeha’s side
Like they justify whatever Jaeha does but when it comes to Eunho the same stuff it’s a taboo and he’s an asshole?
That’s why I think people who r calling Eunho an asshole,are just trying to justify Jaeha because when it comes to Jaeha’s mistakes u say ‘what’s the problem in hurting someone because u’re irresponsible and afraid’ but u forget that everything u say applies to Eunho too
Though what Eunho and Jaeha did were different
Eunho was actually trying
Jaeha…well he was happy he has a new sex toy

Idk how u think it’s okay to hurt someone just because u’re scared?
What makes it worse is that Jaeha knows what he’s doing,yet he doesn’t learn from experiences and repeats the mistakes
If I were u,i’d be scared of Jaeha in first place because the only thing he doesn’t have in common with a sociopath is feelings a bit guilty

Plus; I don’t think using people as sex and comfort tools because ur professor was a jerk,is the right thing to do