^ Like, i get that Eiji isn't TRYING to neglect his boyfriend, but he is. It's one thing if its just once or twice, but when you choose another person over your lover so many times that they expect it and feel the way Haru does it's not okay. There're obligations when you go into a relationship, if you're taking it seriously, hell "obligations" might even be a bad word for it because the idea is that if you love someone you WANT to make them happy. I dont think Eiji is ready for a relationship, at least not outside his "childhood friend" since they're important enough that he feels he HAS to be there when they are sick. If you KNOW you dont have time for a relationship then either make time or dont get in one...
Yay older brother take him far away and love him always.(⌒▽⌒)