Disagree. If your partner keeps lying to you, you better get out of that relationship real quick. If you can’t trust your significant other not to lie/not to overreact, then that person is not the right partner for you. Life’s too short to stay in bad relationships.;)
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I understand where your coming from. But that's if the lies are truly toxic and the partner lying is definitely causing their loved one harm (emotionally or physically) cheating, abuse, ignoring, etc...
What Maya does is basically white lies of stupidity. He thinks lying to Nemu is better than facing his hurt or negative feelings. It's classic of everyone to hide things that they may think is nothing but their partners may think differently.
That can cause arguments but does that mean it should be the ending of a possibly great relationship? This is all personal opinions of course and I think asking for a break up or serious distrust in Maya now is just pointless. I believe Nemu should stand up for himself and tell Maya to stop lying to protect his "feelings" and work from there. Isn't that the basics of a relationship? People shouldn't want a fantasy relationship where everything is perfectly laid out and everyone is open about everything.
Life is too short; I agree. But It's not worth running away when things aren't going your way, then maybe staying out of a relationship is the best option for now and grow as an individual. Life is too short to give up on possibly the best thing that's helped you grow over the years.
Yeah he is hiding it to avoid seeing Nemu getting hurt or nervous. The problem is that if he keeps doing that Nemu will not grow up and learn how to cope with situations
I agree with this one. Maya did lie to protect Nemu. I know it's still wrong and Nemu still got hurt. But Maya surely did learn fron his mistake, that's why he promised to tell Nemu everything from now on. It's not like he always lie to him.
Yeah this is what I was basically saying. If Maya was a constant liar and always hid every single thing from Nemu then I would be all for Nemu moving on. But Maya hasn't done anything in a little while deserve getting dumped for a failed white lie.
But it's too soon to tell if he's gonna do it again, so the whole Nemu growing up thing isn't vaild yet. It's too soon to determine anything at this point; that's why I was confused by everyone jumping to conclusion that Maya was turning into pathological liar basically. He lied once to Nemu from what I recall lately and got caught. He felt bad and apologized. Not need to run off with another man. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
No no i totally agree. I mean it's the first lie he said and everyone is already like "break up! He's toxic!" But it's never happened before and it's also a silly lie. Everyone lies sometimes to partners and friends so it's not something that big, also he didn't go cheat or anything
One of the few relationships out of a lot of manga/manhwas I've read that is genuine. I see everyone wants Maya to be this perfect guy that doesn't lie and appreciate every ounce of Nemu but that wouldn't be an appealing story, would it?
I like things like this. Simple mistakes and arguments. They test the waters of the relationship, the do's and don't's but in the end love is stronger. Maya adores the ground Nemu walks on and Nemu is head over heels in love with Maya.
Nemu is too insecure and sensitive and that's fine when you're dating the sexiest guy from your high school. And Maya is an air head and temperament guy who is afraid of making his boyfriend worry. Two polar opposites will have many downfalls.
This is neither boy's fault so I don't see why Maya is the bad guy. In the first few chapters early on; I got it. He was a jerk and forced himself on Nemu. But he's learned and grown up a lot (not completely) but enough.
Anyway...I just feel like white lies are a relationship must because it just shows boys will be boys and things we don't like happens. No need to look for a new guy to make matters escalate into a very harsh break up guys. If this was a real couple--that could actually end the relationship for good. Trust me, I've seen it happen.
Guys lie to stop their boy/girlfriend from crying and freaking out over nothing. And boy/girlfriends cry and grow paranoid over everything.
Love makes your scared.
Can't wait for more!(▰˘◡˘▰)