preach. biggest most important relationship you'll have in this lifetime is with yourself. <3 if you can't love yourself, then you're running on empty and it affects all your other relationships.
That is the only sentence I disagree with her
She really misread it
He hates himself ...but he is afraid to be hurt , he loves eunho by thinks he doesn't desrev it , doesn't deserve to be happy , doesn't deserve the pain that will cause eunho in the future ....
I'm not arguing your point bc I completely agree but I think maybe she meant that he was so caught up in himself that he failed to notice that there was actually someone else in the relationship with him, bc I believe at the time he truly loved hyesun but he didn't say it bc like she said he was scared she'd throw his love back at his face especially after finding out he'd dated guys and it's also understandable why he acted that way coming from an abusive family and the shit way he was treated for lovin g anither guy by his father and all that built up jaeha into the emotionally closed off vulnerable jaeha we see here today
This is how i took it too.
I think what she meant is that he's selfish and only ever thinks of himself. Doesn't take other people's feelings in account, because he's the only one that matters and she's right.
"Because, for you, you're the most important person in your life, and getting hurt is your biggest fear"
You lost me here gurlll. What' wrong with considering yourself as the most important person in your life? and who didn't fear to get hurt? aside from those masochists ...