ohh i was thinking about the same manga, exact scene
the part where seme said 'hoshi, hoshi, hoshi'
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/black_bird/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/last_game/ - not as intense as your example but the male lead seriously loves the girl, a really cute story
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hadashi_de_bara_wo_fume/ - the second lead is the more possessive and psychotic though
Yaoi:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hadashi_de_bara_wo_fume/ - fated pair
Oops sorry wrong site! The yaoi is supposed to be this one http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sayonara_alpha/
It doesn't matter whether yaoi or straight, i just want manga with seme/male lead desperately in love with uke/female lead. I mean, he really wants uke/female lead to be his but it's hard. A good example is chungsam from raising a bat webtoon. Or similar scene like this
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hinadori_wa_shiokaze_ni_madoromu/uu/hinadori_wa_shiokaze_ni_madoromu-chapter-7/21/