What are your thoughts on...

JunglePeach March 10, 2018 12:22 am

threesomes/foursomes etc..in yaoi?

for me personally..If im reading a really light story yaoi then I love it. I also like it if the plot is not that deep or if im not suuper invested in the characters but the art is attractive..

But in a whole, If im reading a yaoi where theres a love relationship between the two characters and they have a threesome i find it a total turn off (this is only my opinion btw)

It makes me feel that the relationship is more lust than love (not denying that there isnt any love, just not romantic in the sense that you have a connection with an individual partner)

idk for me in some cases its ok (great even) but more often than not if there is a couple its a turn off and im instantly dropping it.

any other opinions or thoughts on this?


(and remember, im talking about yaoi, this is obviously not directed at any sexuality or relationship in real life, im only talking about in yaoi)

Responses
    NekoNani March 10, 2018 12:52 am

    Hmmm... Iguess for me it's complicated. If it's an established relationship and they are comfortable with each other, then it's fine.maybe. take for example, the threesome in finder...i thought it was really hot and didn't deter me from reading it. Now if it's a love triangle threesome or the couple isn't ok with it(getting jealous,etc) then i don't like it

    JunglePeach March 10, 2018 1:29 am
    Hmmm... Iguess for me it's complicated. If it's an established relationship and they are comfortable with each other, then it's fine.maybe. take for example, the threesome in finder...i thought it was really ho... NekoNani

    i agree its complicated! omg you mentioned finder and its ironic because thats the yaoi where i saw the 3p and ended completely turned off and ended up dropping it! its really frustrating how some are ok and some i just cant get into

    ArissaShinobu March 10, 2018 1:31 am

    Well i meann... i find it hot. Don't get me wrong i love romantic yaoi where the two really love each other, but i need some threesome/foursome once in a while.

    JunglePeach March 10, 2018 1:39 am
    Well i meann... i find it hot. Don't get me wrong i love romantic yaoi where the two really love each other, but i need some threesome/foursome once in a while. ArissaShinobu

    of course! i completely agree, everyone has their own individual tastes and prefferences. Plus im weak for 3somes when the art is reeealy nice

    NekoNani March 10, 2018 1:39 am
    i agree its complicated! omg you mentioned finder and its ironic because thats the yaoi where i saw the 3p and ended completely turned off and ended up dropping it! its really frustrating how some are ok and so... JunglePeach

    Lol what a coincidence!! Different strokes for different folks. It may be just the way you are. Like I'm a very open minded person and so are the people i hang out with. I actually have a couple friends that allow threesomes in their relationship (with rules of course) and they have been with their partners for years. even though we are talking about fiction, real life experiences/teachings will definitely determine what circumstances we can tolerate in yaoi

    JunglePeach March 10, 2018 1:44 am
    Lol what a coincidence!! Different strokes for different folks. It may be just the way you are. Like I'm a very open minded person and so are the people i hang out with. I actually have a couple friends that al... NekoNani

    lol i totally agree

    chizaman March 10, 2018 2:53 am

    Ay, you're copying the style of my posts >.>... Anyways, I generally don't like 'em one bit. There are probably exceptions, but I have yet to discover them.

    miusaski March 10, 2018 3:42 am

    really depends on the kind of plot. if its a loose plot or made just for the sex i think its hot and im cool but im on your side for if the uke/seme is already in a relationship and then some random ass dude comes into the picture like HEY LETS FUKC and they all get together then im like ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh stop because its just really unattractive to me im sorry