I don’t know

Ely March 7, 2018 4:15 am

I keep thinking about it so much. Someone in my family is sick, and by sick I mean cancer. That person is fine right now, but what about in the future? I’m scared. I’m so scared, time goes by so fast. I feel like if I just look away for a second, If I let go of that hand, they’ll be gone.

Responses
    Ichigo100 March 7, 2018 4:27 am

    All you can do now for that person and their future is to hope, but to hope for the best you must let go of that fear.~Good Luck and bless you and your family!

    Anonymous March 7, 2018 4:32 am

    We all gonna die
    Time flies in our lives
    Death can be due to the silliest reasons or a major reason , but death is death
    Just be grateful for what u have at this exact moment , and worrying about the future ruins both present and future
    Be happy he/she is fine , be happy .....it is all gonna end , for all of us ....someday ...

    Anonymous March 7, 2018 5:02 am
    We all gonna die Time flies in our lives Death can be due to the silliest reasons or a major reason , but death is deathJust be grateful for what u have at this exact moment , and worrying about the future ruin... @Anonymous

    Man that's deep

    ArissaShinobu March 7, 2018 5:07 am

    Cancer is one of the deadliest diseases and there is no cure, i know how you feel since my grandmother have died from breast cancer, i remember the time i got up from my bed early in the morning and people are gathering at my house andd you know the rest, best advice is to really spend everyday with them and stop worrying about the future and hope for the best.

    Owl March 7, 2018 5:16 am

    Well, what stage of cancer are they at? If they are at stage 1 there usually shouldn't be too much worry as it hasn't spread.

    -_- March 7, 2018 6:30 am

    You should really speak with that person about your feelings and seek a support group to help you cope. Cancer can be a terrible disease because you can end up watching the person you care about waste away and suffer. The healthcare providers can refer you to support groups and give you advice on where things go from there.

    ebjean March 7, 2018 6:31 am

    I understand how you feel. I have lost multiple family members to different types of cancer, and a few are fighting it currently. It's not hopeless, though. If it's caught at a fairly early stage, and the person is otherwise in pretty good health, they might have a chance of beating it, depending on the type of cancer it is. Good luck.

    Anonymous March 7, 2018 6:39 am

    Death will eventually happen. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but instead of worrying losing them in the future, it's better to focus on your present instead. Why worry on something uncertain? Sure, prepare yourself but don't let it control you. Cherish them because no human lives forever. If you're afraid of losing them, then what's about them? I bet they're also afraid of being gone. It's sucks but don't let it suck you drained.

    ひびくきのくち March 7, 2018 7:38 am

    Everyone dies lol. Just accept it

    cat knight bytes March 7, 2018 9:48 am

    Having a recent experience, that was very close, I call that person and visit when I can, stay positive yourself. Spend less time on the negative, give the person flowers now (find out what they like and do that with them). Small things like bringing then coffee watching an old film they like. It may help.