I totally agree with you. Separated siblings should be forbidden, and the fact that she didn't want the baby because he was handicaped...wath an horrible woman.
also, the parents are looking at the babies like there are in a shop. I mean, when you adopt a child, normally you don't have the choice, you can't choose the child. Or is it different in Korea?
How should I know? I mean, I'm not at the age where I would know, but I'm not trying to disagree with you here, I'm just saying, that when people adopt children, they sometimes take on the consumer view and usually they can choose the child they want, it's the system. If they're not happy with the child they'll return it. It's Petscop that's what it is. I don't know about adoption because I haven't been through the process, or even been part of it, but since you think that Foster parents or adoptive parents shouldn't choose the cgild they want to care for, so be it.
Then there's the question, what if your parents were forced to love you because you were their biological child and they have that obligation as a parent to love you? And what if youwere born out of wedlock? Now that is something else to think about.
Not everyone is filled with love and kindness.
sure, not everyone, but you can't be forced to love someone. Love is love, of course there are parents who don't love their children.
But for me, when you want to adopt a child, you have to bear the consequences. You can't just give it back. When you want to take care of a child, you have to accept everything about him. Of course it's a personal point of vue.
Well, I just know that in France you can't choose the child, but I don't know about other places...
not everyone may share my feelings and that's okay BUT i was looking at this couple and thinking, "aw. they're so cute." and seeing them adopt a child was even cuter.
what got under my skin is the fact that she saw a baby that she thought was cute but didn't want him because he was handicapped and even worse, took the identical one because he wasn't.
first of all, if i ever adopted and saw that the kid i wanted had a twin, i'd take the responsibility of keeping both. i feel like that's the worst thing you can do is separate siblings... twins, at that.
second, he's handicapped so you don't want him anymore? I'D LOVE THAT KID WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL. but like i said, not everyone shares my feelings.