Preach! I mean, i still like this story, but the autor could be more fresh about this and avoided those problematic tropes ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
I get where you're coming from, but I don't really see any forcing here. It's not exactly harassment to want to clear up a misunderstanding (not yet, anyway).
You say they should sit down and talk? Well, he already tried that, and it didn't work because the other guy is too stubborn.
So you're saying if someone doesn't want to talk you have to fake been unconscious
wait to be alone with that person grab them by the arms and force them to "talk" to you? ("talk" because we all know how that talk will be). He already said that he doesn't want to talk and want him to go(like last night, freaking yesterday not even one day has passed since their break up) , give the boy space and try later do not fucking go to his workplace and embarrass him by getting drunk or faking it to force him to "talk".
Maybe im overreacting a little bit but i just liked the story so much and 99% of bl have this thing, the seme forcing the uke and fixing things just with sex and blah blah blah i just really hate the force/rape cliche.
Idk why you are assuming it'll turn into rape or something like that. In real life when someone's lover trust to walk away with no explanation or reason that someone will usually grab onto them to stop them from leaving and try to talk to them. I don't see any forcing him...he just pulled him down and yeah the pretending to be drunk is a little extra but I don't see any situation in where the uke can't just walk away. The semester doesn't seem like he would force sex on him and has shown no violence tendencies yet but anything can happen. I just don't understand why you are jumping to conclusions and thinking it will just turn out like any other you (I'm mean it still could but I don't see it that way). I'm not trying to cause an argument or anything...just wanted to share my opinion.
I also hate the force cliche, we agree on that. I just don't think it has quiiite gotten to that stage yet. It's a bit different when it's about two people who have actually been in love, and then break up so suddenly without real reason being given. It's understandable that he would want to know why. Also, I'm pretty certain he's not someone to become a stalker and continue this until he gets his way.
So far I think the series has been quite refreshing in not including those force/rapey tropes, and I'm willing to bet it's not going to turn out like that. We will have to see the outcome next chapter.
I do not know why im such a bitch now towards that kind of actitude ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ. I really really hate it now when people force others, like he told him to go and i know this is a bl tho but instead of forcing him and pushing him on top of him (╬￣皿￣)凸 i would really liked if instead of doing that he just sit and ask him to talk like for real but nope here we go again with the cliche of forcing the uke and fix things with sex because everyone knows that a seme dicks fixs every fucking problem *rolling eyes 360* I wanna cry cuz i really liked how the story was going but this really anoyed me
ps: sorry for my grammar, this boy learned english with mangas, games and movies ┑(￣Д ￣)┍