There is nothing to be sorry about ,
I don't think it is related to being a male or a female ,
Personally I don't know much about psychology or how the desire and lust works out , it is all more in the brain and neural so it might happen but like I do think "unwillingness " in both sexes is a huge turn off ,
Like I don't care about how fictionally it is described in manga but the real thing is way different , it may even cause trauma or disorders to the one assaulted ,
I hate how ppl started taking that lightly since it is a common happening in manga , but like guys , the real thing is really frightening
U would never be wanting to get hurt or like be assaulted or raped even by a beloved one ....at least to me , I would never be the same in a bad unhealthy way
I read something about issues like that and for women, the vagina automatically lubricate as a natural reaction (kinda like a self defense bc it would hurt more if it isn't lubricated). As for men, someone told me that precum could sometimes help their ass to lubricate a bit idk tbh not a dick expert lmao
So I obviously don't know much about the male physiology/psychology. I wanted to know if men can get an erection if they are being assaulted (by a person of any sex). Is it a completely physical reaction or does it have a lot to do with psychology as well. If a person is really unwilling, then does he get turned off and not get hard at all? (I'm not talking about the cases where stimulants are used). Thank you and I'm sorry if I have been insensitive.