i like the teasing quiet unexpected person
masculine with a genuine heart , GENTLE , caring with hidden things he does for the person he likes , loving but also firm , doesnt care about the details , pushy in times and laid back in other , not a clown , but can make ppl laugh , has a presence and demands respect , and decisive ...
that its my type of seme or my type in general
but i find masculinity an important quality of the man ( it is like basics to me )
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the way u described masculinity isnt actually masculinity , it is ur view of it ,
I like when both sides are masculine, but not in the way you described. But really I like anything as long as the character isn't a rapist and is just generally a good person.
i agree with otaku nerd
that is not masculinity tho
it is the obsession trait in the the seme
uhh I get that you're trying your best to sound woke but you're not doing a good job at it. I'm with you in despising ~fujoshi culture~ with their romanticizing shit and disregard for feminine characters, but masculinity isn't... something inherently toxic. at all. masculinity allows room for femininity. Femininity allows room for masculinity. they aren't mutually exclusive concepts. and good lord please stop trying to make it sound like people who embrace their femininity can't be abusive lol what you described above are abusive traits that can manifest themselves in anyone - feminine men included. Discussing and opposing toxic masculinity is always welcome, but don't go around throwing words you don't know how to use in context to fit your agenda, mate.
Omg, I've commented too much on this topic and feel like shit. I'm like, I disagree, but then I'm like, but some of it is true. I feel like I'm so rude, not only that, but it's going against someone's OPINION guys, ABOUT FICTIONAL CHARACTERS, yet everyone is getting so hype and shook. To the author of this comment, I'm sorry I'm a piece of crap.
I do agree, but I think you might be lumping up the definition of masculine (having qualities appropriate to or usually associated with a man) with the term jerk (a piece of shit).
Though I agree with the points you say, semes that are fucking abusive and rapist are not tolerable and really suck. They are usual called sadistic, jerk, or a piece of shit seme (unless it's that way for the sexual gratification of the reader no judge). ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
I myself dislike the feminine anything in yaoi, more elaborated, ukes that look female (short, cross dresser, wants to be a girl, girly, etc.)
Cross dressing semes (and ukes?) has risen in popularity (sadly) so I just stick to not reading them (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜. I read yaoi for a reason and I like the characters look, well, male. Of course that is a personal preference and lesser in comparison (my preference being manly ukes).
FINAL NOTE
Though they should NOT be manly, manly, manly. They should be able to do something other than lift weights. (lol) ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
there are so much people on here who hate feminine ukes,you know? I don't say "feminine cis men can't be abusive" but I don't agree with "masculinity isn't something inherently toxic" thing.Yes it is.So,I don't think you'll understand what I mean.Your opinion is definitely different from me unlike you said.So,I don't have a reason to argue with you.
Of course, deleting comments is the best you can do to silence people who have seen you for who you are. Granted you probably don't care at all for my opinion or for anonymous opinions for that matter so I am here with a temporary account. I will try my best to repeat my previous comment from memory.
"┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ Let's have a group of feminine uke haters and a group of masculine seme haters. Equality, am I right? But for the record, I have seen you and a few other users comment "all men are disgusting" on a post condemning a seme for raping an uke, so I am not quite sure if your argument is a biased feminist view or you actually argue with reason? It's always best to have an open mind even if you don't like certain topics otherwise when you post important posts like these, people won't take you as seriously,"
Now I know that is not the exact comment. But take it as it is. I do not expect or want to have a conversation with you. It won't bring us anywhere, I am sure of that. I simply wanted my opinion to stay permanent.
Masculine semes are the most annoying shit in yaois.They're not expressing their feelings and are so full of themselves,so aggressive,abusive,emotionally unstable,frequently a rapist and terribly jealous.They are not strong at all.In fact,they're really weak and totally a loser.They lack communication skills and character.I don't really understand why most people like them that much.They're NOT good qualities for a decent human being.They're fucking trash.Feminine cis men are amazing especially feminine ukes.They're real gems.I love them so much.
Not all masculine semes??? Yes all masculine semes.Yes I praise femininity because you are perpetually humiliating feminine ukes lol