QUESTION. ARE YOU an S OR M

Winryyvette January 31, 2018 5:22 pm

I'm asking this question because actually I have no idea what am I. I love seeing uke who gets bullied/teased/tortured by the seme and honestly sometimes it turns me on seeing his painful expressions.

I don't know if it's relevant with my gender or not but I'm a girl you see. I wonder if the reason I like seeing the uke is because I'm actually seeing myself as the uke or..... because I just like seeing people suffer lol.

Besides the quiz about the type of seme uke that once were shared here, I wonder if there any valid reason as why I like that kinda thing so much lol.

I mean how'd you know if you're an S or M? Just a hunch? Or what?

I'm interested to know this side of myself lololol so please enlighten me

Responses
    aoi January 31, 2018 5:25 pm

    You are most definately an S

    elephantcockroach January 31, 2018 5:31 pm

    You're a seme if you want to dominate others than them dominating you, if you're the latter then you're most likely an uke.
    The lewd explanation I think would be if you see "that" scene which would you feel more? Ugh, I don't want to continue wahahhahahaha. Just go explore. Mangago has lots of materials as it is. hahahhaha. Didn't help sorry hahahaha. My sanity was slipping LOL

    Anonymous January 31, 2018 5:42 pm

    Even if you like torture another one you can be a super M. It's very hard to explain in a few words... Anyway nobody confesses he is an M cuz that's not cool. People think it's cool to be an S only, hah.

    Yasna January 31, 2018 6:10 pm

    I'm like this too, But I believe I'm M...
    Well, I see myself as the uke and I only care about uke's look...and yeah it's not cool lol

    strawberry January 31, 2018 6:33 pm

    I'm a m.. sometimes i do imagine I'm in uke place and got turned on

    takame January 31, 2018 9:36 pm
    Even if you like torture another one you can be a super M. It's very hard to explain in a few words... Anyway nobody confesses he is an M cuz that's not cool. People think it's cool to be an S only, hah. @Anonymous

    I don't easily believe people who announces to the world they are S because yeah, "it sounds "cool". *rolls eyes.
    I encountered people who "feel" or declare they are S but ended up being and m or a sub.

    elephantcockroach February 1, 2018 4:01 am
    You're a seme if you want to dominate others than them dominating you, if you're the latter then you're most likely an uke. The lewd explanation I think would be if you see "that" scene which would you feel mor... elephantcockroach

    My bad. I thought it was uke and seme hahaha, it was masochist and Sadist. Sorry hehe. Yeah if you gain pleasure from seeing someone hurt then you definitely an S if you love being hurt verbally physically etc by someone then you're an M

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:18 pm
    You are most definately an S aoi

    Alright! Thank you so much!!!

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:19 pm
    You're a seme if you want to dominate others than them dominating you, if you're the latter then you're most likely an uke. The lewd explanation I think would be if you see "that" scene which would you feel mor... elephantcockroach

    It's okay thanks alot anyways. I just need someone to discuss(?) This kinda thing lol since I thought this is the right place for me to (?) Lololol

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:21 pm
    Even if you like torture another one you can be a super M. It's very hard to explain in a few words... Anyway nobody confesses he is an M cuz that's not cool. People think it's cool to be an S only, hah. @Anonymous

    Omg just knew about this fact!!!! Thank you so muchhhh

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:24 pm
    I'm like this too, But I believe I'm M...Well, I see myself as the uke and I only care about uke's look...and yeah it's not cool lol Yasna

    Why's being an M isn't cool??????
    I cannot see myself being an S or M tho. I just randomly like the uke suffer lololol that's why I'm super confused......

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:29 pm
    I'm a m.. sometimes i do imagine I'm in uke place and got turned on @strawberry

    Hmmmn very interesting. May I know how you ended up knowint that you're imagining yourself as the uke? Was it something that happened naturally and you just knew(?) Or you did your research then finally understand that you're actually positioning yourself in the uke's place, not the seme's place

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:33 pm
    I don't easily believe people who announces to the world they are S because yeah, "it sounds "cool". *rolls eyes. I encountered people who "feel" or declare they are S but ended up being and m or a sub. takame

    So how's your definition and how'd you know that someone is an S or dom? Is taking random quiz online is the only answer? Actually I don't believe any kind of random online quiz so I'm eager to know about another way to actually find out about this kinda thing.

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:35 pm
    My bad. I thought it was uke and seme hahaha, it was masochist and Sadist. Sorry hehe. Yeah if you gain pleasure from seeing someone hurt then you definitely an S if you love being hurt verbally physically etc ... elephantcockroach

    Well.......... i don't think i like seeing my partner to get hurt and I don't think I like the feeling that my partner is dominating me in anyway BUT WHY DO I LIKE IT SO MUCH WHEN I SEE THE UKE SUFFERS??????? do i imagining myself as the uke or the seme??? How'd i know???????

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 1:36 pm
    I don't easily believe people who announces to the world they are S because yeah, "it sounds "cool". *rolls eyes. I encountered people who "feel" or declare they are S but ended up being and m or a sub. takame

    Well.......... i don't think i like seeing my partner to get hurt and I don't think I like the feeling that my partner is dominating me in anyway BUT WHY DO I LIKE IT SO MUCH WHEN I SEE THE UKE SUFFERS??????? do i imagining myself as the uke or the seme??? How'd i know???????

    takame February 1, 2018 1:54 pm
    So how's your definition and how'd you know that someone is an S or dom? Is taking random quiz online is the only answer? Actually I don't believe any kind of random online quiz so I'm eager to know about anoth... Winryyvette

    umm actual sex? quiz can mostly serve as a reference but as everyone is saying, the real thing is different. when you are at the spot you will know what you want. that's how i found out mine. ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    Winryyvette February 1, 2018 3:07 pm
    umm actual sex? quiz can mostly serve as a reference but as everyone is saying, the real thing is different. when you are at the spot you will know what you want. that's how i found out mine. ლ(´ڡ`ლ) takame

    WOW!
    I'm thinking to ask my partner to do this kinda thing but I just don't know what to offer(?)him since I'm actually clueless about what I want. Is this something to discuss together? I thought that I need to know what I want first and discuss the rest. HM. Interesting. Thank you so much for the enlightenment ლ(´ڡ`ლ)