help! I need a second opinion.

Heather January 28, 2018 12:47 am

Someone just called me a hypocrite over wanting sekyung to end up with minho and criticizing the relationship of minho and jahun.

I tried to tell her that I wasn't comfortable with someone calling me a hypocrite (because I didn't believe that I was) and I stated why I said what I said. but then she replies with a pretty long post on why shouldn't ship them (and that I am stupid for doing so), telling me that I am biased and that I should admit that I'm a hypocrite. (a bit confused though does she actually want me to say to her that I'm a hypocrite or something? and then what?) and it really bothered me. I've pretty much researched what a hypocrite is, and I don't even know how she came up with the conclusion that i am a hypocrite. Isn't hypocrisy about morality rather than supposedly having a contradictory statement? I was just speaking my mind!

(my post is two pages back if you want to read what happened. the conversation itself was pretty short, there were just long answers)

Am I really a hypocrite?

Responses
    JustAYaoiFangirl January 28, 2018 1:49 am

    Well, technically they do have a point but the point that they make does seem to have a huge problem. You see, the ship that you wish was a thing and the ship that we ended up with has almost the exact same amount of development even through the actual ship should be way more developed. The development of the actual ship is what matters the most and is what most people should focus on. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with you suggesting that it's not developed enough.

    Overall, the fact that you said that perhaps there wasn't enough development and maybe if there was then there would be more chemistry between them rather than just plainly complaining about the story lacking development can be considered as criticism. You did give advice as to what could help you like the couple more.

    In my opinion, you're fine. They seem to be over reacting. It's probably because of all the hate going around before so don't take what they say to heart. You do seem nice so I don't think you're one of the people hating on the black haired guy. That person just seems to think that you are which is basically a bias and is causing them react in a much more negative way towards you. Just try to go easy on them, keep it short, don't over explain it and tell them that you have nothing against the black haired guy, this is just your opinion, you didn't mean to insult anyone.

    If they still give you crap after that then either ignore them or you could try to annoy them. It's up to you but if you do decide to annoy them I have a few recommendations.
    1) Be as sarcastic as possible.
    2) You should at as if you mean it even if it's extremely dumb.
    3) Try to sound as edgy as possible
    4) Say weird stuff
    5) Insult them
    6) Give hints that you're trolling to see if they pick up.
    Remember, if you decide to annoy them that they will probably keep on giving you crap. So I don't recommend this unless you're extremely bored and a dick which you don't seem to be so I don't think you will pick this option.

    Anonymous January 28, 2018 6:18 am

    " hypocrite over wanting sekyung to end up with minho and criticizing the relationship of minho and jahun." you criticise one relationship over the other when both aren't developed. Sekyung and minho moreso because at least Hajun has shown some attraction to Minho and Minho does actually like Hajun. With minho not caring at all about Sekyung and having no feelings at all for Sekyung.

    You do realise this shows that you are a hypocrite right?

    Heather January 28, 2018 11:49 am
    Well, technically they do have a point but the point that they make does seem to have a huge problem. You see, the ship that you wish was a thing and the ship that we ended up with has almost the exact same amo... JustAYaoiFangirl

    Thanks. I really appreciate it what you've just said. I guess I've taken what she said to heart too much.. i don't know.. I've never been too good with confrontational people. I just can't handle people being angry at me.. No one has ever called me a hypocrite before (at least not to my face, so I don't really know), so I was shocked to find a stranger calling me a hypocrite over a comment that I made. I've read your reply to my other post.. thank you, it really means a lot. you seem like a pretty good person too!

    I've been reading up on trolls and mean people on the internet, and the best solution would probably be to ignore them at this point.. I don't think that they will ever give up, if I keep on talking to them... So, I've been thinking of just muting it and just let it go, (if it really gets that bad, I'll probably just delete it for good. so that there wouldn't be anymore trouble.. thanks again!

    morning January 29, 2018 12:09 pm

    Don't worry we're all here are hypocrites, we said we love some manga/manhua/manhwa here and the yet still reading it illegally and killing the authors softly. I'm so disgusted this uploader actually removed Tappytoon page, yuck. If the uploader read this: fuck you, at least tell people to support/buy the webtoon, you're not a robin hood, just a criminal.

    Heather January 29, 2018 4:09 pm
    Don't worry we're all here are hypocrites, we said we love some manga/manhua/manhwa here and the yet still reading it illegally and killing the authors softly. I'm so disgusted this uploader actually removed Ta... morning

    what happened with tappytoon?