Why the theme "dressed seme and naked uke during sex" is so popular? When I see it I feel like the sex must be boring, the seme isn't even feeling hot and sweaty!
I know! All that clothing rubbing against your bare skin. Friggin’ jeans chaf, man! how can one person being fully dressed while the other is completely naked be sexy? Seems so lazy...
Often it's a sign of power to be dressed while the other is naked (vulnerable). So seeing as the seme is often more dominant in yaoi I think it ties into that. So seme is dressed bc he's more powerful. At least that's my theory.
Why the theme "dressed seme and naked uke during sex" is so popular? When I see it I feel like the sex must be boring, the seme isn't even feeling hot and sweaty!