Not agree at all. If you have a good relationship with your exes or have still some kind of contact is fine. But if you hide it aside of being suspictious is a grave lack of communication that will lead to problems. If your partner doesnt want you to have contact with your exes both have to come to an agreement ot break it off.
well of course.. its okay to be friends with your exes..like i stated in my comment..but the thing is that the lover didn't know..and he had no idea about how his lover is actually texting to a girl(and the worst thing is that, that it was his ex)..he can be friend with all of his exes if he likes but he needs to consult his lover because that is his right(just like you stated) but what pissed me off is that he didn't tell his lover and waited for him to find out and that he even had the time to text with his ex but not try to be with his lover which may really make the lover insecure.. that's my point..and the fact that he is hiding it makes it even more suspicious
Its okay to meet up with your exes but not letting your current lover know.. its inconsiderate..like she is your ex and you text with her like all the time and not let your bf know..like that's just saying that you are cheating on him even though your not..and the bf must feel insecure right now. i hope he says sorry and learns from his mistake.. cause what he did was a dick move..not paying attention to your bf but texting with your ex.. like hell nah(●￣(ｴ)￣●)