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Another reddit post about abuse and BDSM: https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/5jz1k3/psa_newbies_you_always_have_a_choice/
These post are written by people in the BDSM community. The comments are mostly from BDSM people too.
This yaoi has sparked a lot of discussion, so if you're curious about how to tell the difference here are a few sources you might check out:
BDSM subreddit FAQ: https://www.reddit.com/r/bdsmfaq/
This is a post about abuse and BDSM: https://www.reddit.com/r/bdsmfaq/comments/33bie1/abuse_and_bdsm/
Article: https://www.verywell.com/difference-between-bdsm-and-abuse-4065395
The best BDSM comic I've found (lesbian romance): https://shiniez.deviantart.com/gallery/35675685/sunstone-chapter1