It's okay to be curious, but I don't think it's okay to be so hung up on that. Their sex life is none of our business.
Ofcourse is none of my business, i just cant stop thingking about it （/TДT)/
It's like when a man sees you and thinks how does your husband do you.... that's rude, Miss.
no,just no.its weird to think that for me because it’s none of our business and it’s rude to think that
It depends on the couple, some don't even have sex because they don't like how anal sex feels. Some couples take both roles,top and bottom. But I don't think they stick to an specific role like being always on top or being always on bottom.
Lol I was curious as well some time ago, and read a couple of articules about it, so what I've written in here is what I remember from those articles. Anyways, sexuality is something that all experience diferently I guess.
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What? How can it be rude to think about something? It just happens in your mind and normally no one would ever know about it. Freedom of thought and so on.
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This is awkward lmao. I'm gay, and I will first agree that it isn't really your business. When people stare, it makes me REALLY uncomfortable. Some guys don't care, but I'm not that confident. I can tell when someone is looking at me like that, and I don't love it. I don't want to constantly be sexualized. Sometimes I just want to buy eggs or see a movie and not think about that sort of thing.
For the sake of education, I will say that most guys don't have a set in stone role. Seme and uke only exist in fiction, as far as those terms go. Even in Japan, actual gay men do not use those terms. That said, yes, there are strict tops or bottoms who do not switch roles, but they're not the majority. Most are flexible, but even those who are, often have a preference. It's highly personal, and everyone is different. There's no way you would know just by looking. I might be able to tell though lmao
I know it. My mind just go dumb (￣ε(#￣)Σ
I guess I can say I'm guilty. When I see a gay couple (irl or on tv), that's like my 1st thought. But then I'm just like, why do I care and go on with my day. Though, I'm curious about everything so ya, not just gay couples in general. I could be seeing a straight couple and wonder how their first time went, does she suck his D with her lips, or does he eat her out? Stuff like that. I'm a dirty person, don't mind me with my mentally dirty thoughts. I would care for a moment then realize everyone probably goes at their own pace and shit like that doesn't matter in the end.
Thank you so much. I know that i being rude, i read to much yaoi n love it so much that why when i saw 2 guy hold hand on the street my mind just remember n relate to book that i read. And my eyes cant stop starring to them until they gone. I know aware that i'm rude but i really exited. If possible i want to follow them but i cant, i need to work lol.
Its not like hate them or anything, not! I believe that people have their freedom to choose with whom they falling in love. Meybe the way i starring n thingking can be different if i'm used to it. But not in every place n country people so open about homoseksual relationship you know. So from someone like me this is really something knew n i dont know how to react.
But thank you to answer my question, even my english really bad.
You are so kind.
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Thank you so much... (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I don't think your intentions are bad :) I think that if things are hard for people like me where you live, then it's good to let people know that they have your support.
I went from living in a very accepting area, to a much less accepting area. I get stared at much more often here when I am out with someone I'm dating, but honestly, I was stared at a lot before as well. No matter the intentions, people are always curious. Especially with women, people often have good intentions, but still treat us like puppies or sex objects. I come from a place of privilege in my demand to be treated like anyone else, but I think the wish for that is universal.
I don't think it would be very nice for homosexual people to be sexualized all the time. Truth is, we will never know bc each person an each couple is different.
At first I was thinking that too but now I leave terms like seme or uke just for yaoi. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and just go aww at real gay couples. Lol
Well.. In my country thats might be really hard. But its a good thing that you live in a such place that open minded. Have a nice day n nice date... Heheheh (⌒▽⌒)
Yeah.... I try to think like that too right now..
You know in yaoi there are seme n uke right? Or you can say, pitcher and catcher. But how about in reality?when i see gay couple on youtube or so on the street, just once in my case, lol, the first thing across in my head is, who is seme n uke? Are they also take part as a pitcher and catcher? Or both of them can be bottom and top in the same time when they have sex???? I'm dying to know ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ