I would be glad to talk with you about it. Did you have any specific questions? 25 years is a long time to write about, lol.
Honestly, it would be great to start from the basics, like what to look out for etc.
It would be also good to tell you the reasons. I was somehow introduced to the BDSM topic during one of my late night readings, and if I were to reference/use it as one of the models of a story I would like to get my facts right. However as a person I'm not interested in entering the lifestyle (zzz it scares me a bit) for now.
Hey, on a thread on SM Gokko, you mentioned that you were in BDSM with 25 years of experience, would you mind if 8 ask you to share with me your experience. I would like to hear how it is and understand BDSM more. (=・ω・=)