AHHHH Comfort me plz :(

Yaoi is a dream... November 16, 2017 11:18 pm

So the girl I had a crush on, (she's Bi) but I learned she's also polygamy and has 3 girlfriends already... (person who dates multiple ppl at once) (But with their knowledge, so its not cheating). Not my cup of tea!
But idk why I've been depressed about it for SOME TIME now. Has anything like this happened to you guys? ╥﹏╥

Responses
    Anonymous November 16, 2017 11:22 pm

    Ok? so what.

    Zeke jaeger November 16, 2017 11:28 pm

    I honestly didn't pay attention and I thought its a Yuri manga
    Funny I was talking about polygamous ppl with a friend last time ...I actually don't reject this idea personally... But I guess its up to you.. Its hard to be in a relationship with someone that share their heart and love with others...also I guess you don't have to worry much if she loved you and tresored you... But I believe you deserve better

    hersheycoco November 16, 2017 11:51 pm
    Ok? so what. @Anonymous

    All she wanted was others input and your comment did nothing of the sort. No good feedback of the idea of polygamy or educating or even mentioning your for or against it as an opinion. So fr. So what to your comment

    Add November 17, 2017 12:17 am

    Totally just how I think but- I feel weird about polygamy so I'd feel really bad too. Cheer up though! she probably won't be your last crush!

    narumaki November 17, 2017 12:23 am

    if you want your partner to just be exclusive to you, maybe you should look else where, if not, accept her lifestyle and maybe you could become on one her girlfriends.

    Anonymous November 17, 2017 2:47 am

    That's not polygamy it's polyamory!

    ThatsNiceDear November 17, 2017 3:13 am

    Makes sense that you'd be bummed and it's okay to feel like that. But honestly, there's no reason for you to. You've done nothing wrong and either has she.You can't change how they feel. You have to take it in stride. Because it can't be helped.

    As for me? I've never had this exact thing happen because I was always really kind of quiet. Sure I had crushes but never acted on them or really got to know them except for once. When I told her, she said she was glad to hear it, but turned around a week later and dumped me for my best friend. That one sucked.

    Yaoi is a dream... November 18, 2017 12:42 am

    Thanks guys :) Y'all helped me cope with this, it's nice to have someone to talk to. (Definitely not my homophobic family!!)
    I'll get over it, it'll take time, but I will. And I definitely can't be one of her girlfriends, I'm the jealous-as-heck type lol.