Yes obv if my mother would tell me I have to change, that I cannot dress as a girl, that it would be wrong, slap me because I do and force me to live a lie. Heck yeah I would abondon that sht and slap her before I go.
I think first i'll try to talk with her and if she doesn't understand that mean she really is the selfish one . I will not abandon her but i'll put some distance to may be make her realise her mistake
Depends on the lover, depends on the family. General blanket statement, I think family tends to come first, but I really do believe it depends on the situation.
Will you abandon your lover for your mother/family?