Just by knowing about surrogacy one doesn't become a genius. Next time try to not assume that someone doesn't know something just because you want to show that you're a know-it-all. Teach? First learn to answer only when you're asked otherwise you come off as a smart-ass. Thank you for your "good-hearted" act.
I suppose the sarcasm flew right over your head then but of course, of course. Thank you for “teaching me” this valuable lesson. A lesson that I sure dint ask for but was given to me anyways, hey! Like I sure did days ago. We are all so smart-ass at the end of the day, aren’t we? I mean, here you are “fighting” with a stranger online. What smart way to pass the day. Good day, grumpy, I am bored already, got shit to do.
Wooooooooooooooooooooooow.
It’s because you asked a question like that Rev wasn’t being rude. If you knew what it meant, why did you ask Kipbly like that? Either you really didn’t know, or you were just trying to be an ass.
Anyways, Congrats Kipbly! And hope everything goes well
Not only are you helping to bring another life into this world, you are helping a family who could not do so on their own
Like I said I asked that question of Kipbly, not some know-it-all. If I hadn't know, I would have googled it. I really wanted to know her, as in Kipbly's, answer to my question and not what surrogacy is. Surrogacy is not considered a simple-answer-to-chidlessness in all cultures as it is in some that is why I asked a person that has some experience in it. Ren wasn't rude but she was being a know-it-all. I am an ass because I don't appreciate people butting in uninvited into other people's convo.
And as to why I asked Kipbly something like that, it's because I don't believe surrogacy is a good thing. I wanted to hear her view on it because I wanted to see if she could shed some light on the positive aspects as well as the negative aspects of it as she has experience. And before you get you ass bent out of shape over my opinion, try to understand that not everyone thinks and believes in the same thing.
Peeve and anyone surrogacy isn't for everyone. And the couple I'm having the child for was denied adoption. For simply being gay. It can be joyful or heartbreaking depending on the people. I have seen people abandon surrogacy babies before. And I know its not a fix it plan they do to. Also I'm not female in the since I'm transgender female to male. But before going throughout a change I decided why not use these lady parts before I removed em. I'm not going to have children for myself. This will probably be the only pregnancy I go through. Its for my friend. Not anyone else. This baby I'll become the uncle to. So I'll be apart of its life. The personal details let's just say I wanted this and they did. They couldn't find a surrogate. Because women didn't wanna have a gay couples baby. So with adoption and surrogacy not working. I was like might as well use my female organ's before they are removed. So that's why. Also if your over 18 healthy. Think of gay and lesbian couples who want a child. Being a surrogate for them can be the most beautiful things to do for others. Love comes in all forms nobody should be hated for wanting a family.
Hmm, so my assumption was right and you asked Kipbly if they get paid to “incubate” children in their body as a way to mock that it’s “inhuman” or “unnatural”? Disappointed that I was correct in my judgement. I think Rev’s only fault here was that they assumed that it was a genuine question. You, annoyed that they missed your intent, decided to call them a ”know it all” to spark an argument that no one was giving? Seems a bit silly. I don’t believe everyone believes in the same things, and honestly, I have mixed feelings about surrogacy. However, I’m not so much of an ass to call someone an “incubator, as if the value of their pregnancy has deminished because they are a surrogate. An odd way of trying to begin a “discussion” which was really an underhanded insult in attempts to instigate an argument.
Thank for sharing you views and your story with us. Personally, I do know someone who is a surrogate and I believe that she shares the same views as you. We are both religious and I think religious values can play a large part in how individuals respond to concepts such as surrogacy. In my view, what matters most is that the child goes to a living home. I hope you have a safe delivery
that mom needs to have another child soon she won't have grandchildren to pass on their bloodline they have the uke predisposition