Advice

kim.taehyung October 5, 2017 3:43 pm

Okay so I do have a sort of crush on this guy, I am a Muslim girl he is an atheist. I had this crush on him for roughly six months. We have never talked he particularly doesn't know I exist. A couple of days ago my friend exposed me and he now knows some Muslim girl has a crush on him. Long story short my friends have been telling me to kill whatever it is I feel for him (as if it's that easy). My question for you guys is do I truly have a shot with the guy? Should I move on?

Does anyone know of a great way I could approach him, without it being so awkward?

Responses
    daynight October 5, 2017 4:00 pm

    What kind of a friend does that.

    Anonymous October 5, 2017 4:14 pm
    What kind of a friend does that. daynight

    Are you fine with the fact that your friend almost told him about you?
    Did he said anything to your friend regarding a girl liking him?

    kim.taehyung October 5, 2017 4:22 pm
    What kind of a friend does that. daynight

    Okay I might have to explain this a bit, we were in Mcdonald and my crush was there and his friends, one of his friends was messing with us and she yelled "Tell your boyfriend to knock it off" it was soo embarrassing we just left. So my crush asked his friends what was all that about, and one of his (which is friends with me) told him oh you see that tall Muslim girl she has a crush on you. At first, I was really mad but I know they weren't deliberately trying to expose me.

    kim.taehyung October 5, 2017 4:24 pm
    Are you fine with the fact that your friend almost told him about you?Did he said anything to your friend regarding a girl liking him? @Anonymous

    At first yeah but it wasn't intentional, as for the guy he was nonchalant about he just said "oh"

    I Went From Chan To Sama October 5, 2017 5:45 pm

    Before I give my advice, answer me this, how old are you?

    love is love October 5, 2017 6:26 pm

    well, you can try and write a love letter and leave it in his locker, I did that and after he didn't do anything with it I gave up and tried not to pay much attention to him.

    Anonymous October 5, 2017 6:51 pm

    I'm also muslim
    I'm married
    If i were you I'll move on after i tell him my feelings
    If I were you its not like i want him to like me back
    I just want to tell him my feelings
    After that I will move on
    I still love Allah more than his creation..
    That's if it was me
    What you wanna do that's up to you. You know which one is the best for you

    Anon October 5, 2017 7:01 pm

    Start by saying Hi, get to know him before you jump the gun, he might or might not be the guy you thought he would be you know ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    noobody October 5, 2017 8:00 pm
    Before I give my advice, answer me this, how old are you? I Went From Chan To Sama

    Yeah, and should Muslims even be dating? (⊙…⊙ )

    Anon October 5, 2017 8:09 pm
    Yeah, and should Muslims even be dating? (⊙…⊙ ) noobody

    Dude that's discriminative #-.-)

    noobody October 5, 2017 8:33 pm
    Dude that's discriminative #-.-) @Anon

    Hehheeh, nope. Muslim here ヾ(☆▽☆)
    I think you should forget about it and wait for an awesome Muslim guy. And then marry him.

    Anon October 5, 2017 9:38 pm
    Hehheeh, nope. Muslim here ヾ(☆▽☆)I think you should forget about it and wait for an awesome Muslim guy. And then marry him. noobody

    I ain't the OP and I ain't marrying nobooty! Not now at least maybe 10 or 20 years later, have to find the right booty!ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

    kim.taehyung October 6, 2017 4:58 am
    Before I give my advice, answer me this, how old are you? I Went From Chan To Sama

    I am a Junior in high school I am 16 years old. It's not like I know that I have a crush on him but it's not loved as I barely even know the guy. I am a pretty religious girl and I probably won't do much about it. I just want to know if I can at least be friends with him and how to approach him.

    Anonymous October 6, 2017 9:10 am

    tell him girl

    I Went From Chan To Sama October 6, 2017 2:41 pm
    I am a Junior in high school I am 16 years old. It's not like I know that I have a crush on him but it's not loved as I barely even know the guy. I am a pretty religious girl and I probably won't do much about ... kim.taehyung

    Okay, here's my advice, yes tell him. But also say that you don't want or need a relationship, you're perfectly happy with being his friend, so you just wanted to let him know that. Then it's his choice to tell you how he feels without being pressured into feeling like he'd hurt you or he has to date you. And you never know he might like you too or start developing feelings after being friends for a while. I met my fiancé sophomore year of high school and we started off as just friends :)

    kim.taehyung October 7, 2017 1:50 am
    Okay, here's my advice, yes tell him. But also say that you don't want or need a relationship, you're perfectly happy with being his friend, so you just wanted to let him know that. Then it's his choice to tell... I Went From Chan To Sama

    Thank you so much I will gladly do just that, you have motivated me to at least talk to him, I will tell you the results thx again