Everyone's entitled to their opinion and their feelings and all of that. Where it gets me is when all of the "disappointment" is directed at Rogi, and then it's not disappointment. It's anger, disgust, blame, slut-shaming. Akitora doesn't come in for near his share. Rogi didn't force Akitora to cheat on his wife. Akitora is a grown man who made a conscious choice. Not excusing Rogi but I see a lot of people skipping over Akitora in the blame game.
Lol, true, I mean I never really liked Rogi from the start having read the first story with what he had done to Akitora's son and all that and even when I had read his about his past. I mean sure he had a rough past but I just never really felt like he had any regrets or that it really bothered him, and I guess with him even wanting to go deeper into this kind of life it just couldn't make me sympathize with him but I guess it was just Rogi's character to do something like that because like akitora said, he is the type of guy to push a button without a care for whatever the consequences it may bring and that I understand but doesn't change how despicable he can be. I also know that Akitora isn't a saint either and has done things that you would pretty much expect from a yakuza but just the idea of him cheating on his wife like that just doesn't sit well with me (Partly because I also like the wife and how cool she is and of course their son!) because he doesn't think about how this might affect his family or Rogi as well if he does indeed claim to care about them. I know he had no way of knowing how that would've affected his family years later but considering how unstable Rogi can be and he has seen how desperate the guy can get just to catch his attention, I'm sure he could have at least taken that into consideration. Even more disappointing coming from the guy who tried to turn Rogi down by using his "marriage" and implied "faithfulness to his wife" as an excuse. Still even with all that, I do like Rogi and Akitora's dynamic in this story with all the tension and "energy" they bring. I just wouldn't like it if the wife does know about the relationship about the two and hurt by it (As I said, I like akitora's wife, she seems strong and independent, plus she's a cool lady so what's not to like!) it's just an idea that will always disappoint me and make me feel uncomfortable I just can't help it. (I guess my hetero heart is just winning over my fujoshi instinct this time but meh ╮(￣▽￣)╭ ) I'm still gonna keep reading tho' because the story is great and I just love sensei's art style with characters that always show a great deal of emotion despite looking almost the same in every story.
Is Akitora's wife ok with him cheating on her? Yeah, most likely (she probably knows Akitora the best - marrying him and all). Is Akitora a good man from the start though? Not really (he's a goddamn yakuza). BUT is it ok for some us to STILL feel disappointed by Akitora's action despite knowing how he is? goddamn YES (i do feel quite bad for Aki's wife - i REALLY like her). Personally, I never take reading Jealousy seriously (i know aki and rogi would bang each other lol) but man some of y'all gotta stop disregarding other people feelings. Let them feel disappointed if they want to (and YES even when they know what they're gonna get into reading a yakuza-plot story).