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achu_k September 18, 2017 5:42 am

I dont why, but since the past few months and i think even years i feel lonely. I dont know why. I mean i have actually what i need. My best friend who is really important to me and im also quite popular. I have a family. But for some reason i still feel lonely. I wanted to ask you guys if sb of you know this feeling and know the reason why. Thank you :)

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    Pacgirl September 18, 2017 6:25 am

    Well all of use humans will have a moment in our averagely long lives where we will feel lonely or depressed. What makes the difference is what you do, and narrowing down what is making you depressed.
    So you said you consider yourself popular, how close are you with each friend even your bestie? Do you feel left out in any particular way when socializing with your friends? Like people pay little attention to your feelings, are you more of the person to help than be helped?

    tokidoki September 18, 2017 7:18 am

    You could be suffering from mild depression, or, as what happened to me, your thyroid does not function properly - I would suggest getting a test for your thyroid - it is a simple fix and many suffer from this without being aware.

    achu_k September 18, 2017 10:23 am
    Well all of use humans will have a moment in our averagely long lives where we will feel lonely or depressed. What makes the difference is what you do, and narrowing down what is making you depressed. So you sa... Pacgirl

    No not at all. Im that kind of person who doesnt really care if i get acceoted or not cuz i have realised that i cant make everyone happy. The weird thing is also that i dont talk much at all only to the person who really know me and for some reason people tend to like me. ( im not saying it in a selfish way it's just how i see it from my point of few.) me and my best friend are reallly close. She is like my longlost sister or sth :D yeah im kind of the person who likes to help other than being helped

    achu_k September 18, 2017 10:24 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! KenGoldenTree

    I have tried and didnt help at all :")

    achu_k September 18, 2017 10:25 am
    You could be suffering from mild depression, or, as what happened to me, your thyroid does not function properly - I would suggest getting a test for your thyroid - it is a simple fix and many suffer from this ... tokidoki

    Could be. I had a pretty rough past and i dont know if i could consider it depression, well maybe it could be because i couldnt handle anything back then and had weird thoughts.

    achu_k September 18, 2017 10:27 am
    No not at all. Im that kind of person who doesnt really care if i get acceoted or not cuz i have realised that i cant make everyone happy. The weird thing is also that i dont talk much at all only to the person... achu_k

    I mean k have realised that i cant make everyone like me.

    thefakeone September 18, 2017 11:13 am

    i feel the same way but i tend to ignore it and make fun of it sometimes. but if this helps i would suggest not thinking about it and doing everything that takes ur mind off of it.

    achu_k September 18, 2017 11:28 am
    i feel the same way but i tend to ignore it and make fun of it sometimes. but if this helps i would suggest not thinking about it and doing everything that takes ur mind off of it. thefakeone

    I have been doing that for more than few months and it kinda annoys me. Because i just cant see the reason why i am feeling lonely? I have everything i want and anybody could wish for but my mind sends me signals that i am lonely. human mind is confusing :D

    Anonymous September 18, 2017 12:11 pm
    Could be. I had a pretty rough past and i dont know if i could consider it depression, well maybe it could be because i couldnt handle anything back then and had weird thoughts. achu_k

    You said you had a rough past, does your friends and family know of your past?

    achu_k September 18, 2017 2:55 pm
    You said you had a rough past, does your friends and family know of your past? @Anonymous

    Only my best friend i dont intend to tell it anyone. I am fine with that

    Anonymous September 18, 2017 5:18 pm
    Only my best friend i dont intend to tell it anyone. I am fine with that achu_k

    It is good that you told some one, the reason I asked is that you said brought it up in your post and mentioned a sense on feeling lonely. I have been down this road myself. If you can get a good medical consultation.check your thyroid checked. I too had a very rocky past and did not deal with it. Finally got help. A friend can listen but you may need out side help. It does work. It helped me. The depression But you can deal with it. I did. I hope this helps.