I want manga where the uke controls the situation. Usually it's the seme who's manipulativ...

If you don't mind older classical yaoi, or long reads, then consider trying Kazuma Kodaki's greatest work, http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kusatta_kyoushi_no_houteishiki/

The ukes control everything in that story.

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/trap_ootsuki_miu/ it doesn't seem that way at first but it is

you should read stuffs like these
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/44268/
and more
http://www.mangago.zone/people/tag/49344/sly+uke/

i'm pretty sure you will enjoy these mangas too lol. semes who were dragged around by the ukes. most were completely wrapped in uke's little fingers
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/43389/

Thaaanks ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ those are exactly what I'm looking for

Thanks!