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it's yaoi world , world of fantsy where rape = uncontrolable love , actually in real life the rapist don't hold any love for their victims that's why rape is so horrifiing and trumatizing to the victim , I don't think their is any victim of rape who would ever fall for their rapist , their was some decmontated incidence when the kidnaped victim fall for the kidnapper but I think it's physoclogical condition called syndorm something I forget , but it does happen but it's not really love .. sorry for the bad english!
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Hold on. Not so fast!
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/5819575_%27Stockholm_syndrome%27_Psychiatric_diagnosis_or_urban_myth
http://www.cityuniversity.ca/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Stockholm-Syndrome-poster-rev1.pdf
Brief paraphrase: In the most infamous case of Stockholm Syndrome, the case which gave the syndrome its actual name, Nils Bejerot, the psychiatrist and criminologist who coined the term never even bothered to interview the subject, Kristin Enmark. Kristen's behaviour was calculated to minimize harm to the other hostages in a volatile situation, not to capitulate to her captor.
Stockholm Syndrome is a nasty little term used to diminish agency in abused and violated women (mainly) by implying that they go along with the abuse because they "love" the abuser, when there is more often a toxic cocktail of circumstances locking them into the abusive relationship.
The APA and other credible psychiatric organizations refuse to validate it as a mental health condition. In other words, misogynistic, paternalistic, made-up bullshit.
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Exactly. The basis of the relationship is covertly transactional. The mental conditions of the victim are calculation and hypervigilance. The emotions, if they even exist under such acute focus, are anxiety and fear. The overall state bears a closer affiliation with PTSD than anything else, except that the trauma is happening in real time. It's certainly not love.
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Thx. That's real life, not yaoi. In yaoi, the implicit attraction exists prior to the conflict, but circumstances (like a marital engagement to the boss' daughter) prevent the relationship from proceeding naturally, so the characters are driven to irrational extremes until love resolves all of it. It couldn't be further from reality ... unless they incorporated bug-eyed aliens dropping down on their heads to feast on human flesh ... So I guess it could be further from reality.
we have this type of manga again... seme kidnaps the uke, he rapes him and hurts him yet the uke miraculously falls for him... eh