In my opinion, that dude is totally into you. He's just afraid, maybe of getting outed as bi, or just being rejected. I don't think he meant any real harm out of saying "why would I be into a dude" , because your friends were pressuring him. Just keep doing things with him (alone) and see how it goes. Then catch him on a day where you two are alone and the moods kinda right, and confess again. He will probably say he also likes you ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ Good Luck!!! If you want, pls tell me how it goes ;)))
I'd say make him super jealous. If he's still being all "how can I like a guy" and stuff, then move on and don't look back. If he knows you love him and, despite that he's still hurting you knowingly I'd say it's not worth it. Oh and do confess to him, just to make him understand in case he doesn't
Awww sweetie look I think if u rly rly rly massively love him I think u should come out and say it to him. BUT if he is homophobic and if u think he will do something like spread rumors or something u shouldn't. just support him and try and get his attention. Myb he is trying to protect himself bc alot of ppl are homophobic and who knows what they might do. Normal ppl don't grasp the concept of being bi. If ur a guy and say ur bi they will automatically say ur gay same for girls (yes this happened to me when i came out to my friends and they left me thinking I'm a lesbian and that they didn't want to be targeted) I think u should stick around him whenever u can and I think u should wait. Myb he is afraid. And from what I heard I think he like u too so good luck baby ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
not worth being in a relationship with such a guy. But it's your decision to make, maybe he'll change.
Push him down, rape him and let him fall in love with you over time, you know, the typical yapi scenario
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confess your feelings then move on or just kiss him and see how it goes if he rejects you, say that you wanted to try it also Rianan's suggestion to make him jealous is also good.
Generally I'm against the "make him jealous" bit, but in this case I agree with you due to the circumstances. He needs to know that he's being hurtful and can't expect OP to wait around forever.
I think you should go for the jealousy thing as well BUT there IS a chance that he might think you noticed his feelings(if he likes you that is) and making him jealous with idk saying you like some guy and talking about him could make him feel betrayed and he could give up on you or something.
He did it again. He wrote "You are so cute, will you go out with me, I've had a crush on you for a long time" and before I replied he texted me "Jk jk , sorry " Why would he do that? :( I am so heartbroken, did he forget that I have a crush on him? Like it feels sucks x
Remind him that you have a crush on him and that if he doesn't wish to reciprocate your feelings he shouldn't say stuff like that since it's plain hurtful
Stuff like that as in the "will you go out with me" thing
Maybe he is testing the waters?
Update bitches. I told him that there is someone that have a crush on me, which is not true obviosuly. But it is a guy as well. Anyway, my crush was so demanding like "Who is it" blah blah. But I guess everyone is demanding when it comes to crushes. I told my crush his name. And then he was like "do you like him?" And I replied "Kinda". And he just bluntly said "Lol date him then" :( But suddenly he was like "Btw I am just gonna go away from you" and "I cbf talking to you anymore" And then he left. What do you think guys?!?!?! Give your piece of opinion XD
Holy shit this is literally like a yaoi aaaaaa
GUYS. Now apparently there are rumours in my school that I sucked my crush dick, I do not made this up. Legit. Someone being a dick in my school. And one of my great friends do not want to tell me who created this rumour or from who he heard it. This just debilitated my chance with my crush even more :( although he didnt really care about it, it's definitely making my chance with him even worse. And tbh bc I haven't see my crush for a while, my crush with him also slowly dissipating. I don't want this kind of feeling to end. But my friend told me if we are meant for each other, we will be together whether it's next year or after graduation. So do I should leave it to fate? Or should I control my own Destiny?
Confess.
He will say no :( And I confessed already.
Ill tell you right now, if you leave it to fate you'll end up with a lot of regret. If you want something to happen, then make it happen yourself.
I decided tbh. He is mine. I am getting him no matter what! Idc if some of my friends think it's foolish, I'll try my best!! Wish me luck guys!
Good luck! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Ok. I am 15 bi and have a MASSIVE crush on my best friend who is a guy. He told me before that he was bi, but now he completely denied that he is actually bi. Tbh, I felt he just still in the closet, but I could be wrong. Anyway, it's worth mentioning that he actually already know that I have a crush on him, but he friend zoned me. 1 months has passed, I still have a crush on him. Now I felt he is trying to get close with me as well, I mean he asked me out to a movie just the two of us! I mean when some of my and his friends want to come along, he bluntly reject them. I felt kinda special. And now he often offered me piggyback, carry me around the oval and give me that touchy touchy kind of feels. And sometimes when I grab him from behind (you know the typical yaoi shit) he usually don t care, and there was this one time that our face touched, and he just said "wow you're so cold" but that's all!!!. Not only that, I've been hanging around with a girl recently and he has been super jealous!! Like it's written all over his face, i felt like I have chance, well not until two days ago....
If you guys been following the trend lately, there is this sarahah.com where u put anonymous comment about someone, so my crush made it for the giggles and shit. And then there are multiple questions asking "Are you dating with Rega?" (Rega is my name btw) and it made me feel like lot of people actually thinks we are dating, possibly because the way we act around each other. And then he said to me through a text message, "I don't get why people thinks I am into a dude" and blah blah. I felt super hurt and super bad. Some of my friends said that he is probably like.me but just afraid to be judge by other for being bi. But who knows. So amyway, I felt hurt bc I thought I really did have a chance, I just love him so much. And I felt he do too, I can felt it through lot of his actions. But idek anymore. People told me to move on, but I just like him so much and he is super hot, like any advices guys? Do you think I should just wait for the right time? Should I move on?