I think they are both idiots and probably not emotionally ready for this relationship.
Soutarou needs to get why shit he says is so fucked up. (Causr I mean it is)
And Satoi..... needs to back the fuvk up cause you can't make someone get it with those methods. And its messed up.
I fully agree with you both are handling this really poorly and aren't ready to be in a relationship. I just think Soutarou slightly has the moral higher ground just because he does think he's doing the right thing but both of them are taking things way out of line
Come on, Soutarou was being bullied, threatened and in the end, he was still thinking what was best for Satoi. He did not want to break up with him but the reason he didn't want to be with Satoi in school was for Satoi's own sake. I mean , he was bullied and the first thing he thought of, is what would happen to Satoi. Satoi has not shown that he cared for Soutarou, but Soutarou has been thinking what;s best for Satoi.
Even after seeing that Soutarou was being clearly bullied, Satoi chose to focus on his own problems with Mifune. Like the guy had a crush, but your bf has been clearly bullied. Soutarou needed you to care for him the ONE TIME, and you let him down.
Yes I understand all of that I'm pretty sure I said that in my initial post. Sourtarou has ano self-esteem and anxiety because he gets bullied and that's why he acts the way he does and tries to protect Satoi in a way that just does not make sense especially to regular people. Which is why I said that if Satoi tried to understand how Soutarou thinks none of this would have happened. That being said, to normal people how Soutaou acted is wrong and nor the way it should have been handled. I personally understand Soutarou's actions I have the same issues is Soutarou and have actually done a similar things thinking I was protecting others but it doesn't work. So I also understand the other persons side because they explained the same thing Satoi explained to Soutarou just with less violence. Plus if he was allowed to Satoi probably would have helped Soutarou with the bullying but Soutarou obviously didn't want help and didn't even tell him the situation so it's not really Satoi's fault
I think the biggest problem is that Satoi didn't take the time to understand his boyfriends thought process
Like this is a kid with literally no self-esteem and who obviously has anxiety. Now people like that will do anything to do what they think is protecting their loved ones and that includes shutting them out if they think its better for the other person.
Soutarou has been trying his best to protect Satoi in the best way he knows how even if it could hurt Satoi Soutarou truly believes that what he's doing is more beneficial to Satoi
He will never see himself as truly worthy of Satoi so this is how he acts
So instead of trying to figure that out and help Soutarou with this and understand how his bf thinks Satoi just gets mad sexually assults him and then gets even more mad when Soutarou is obviously scared out of his mind for apologizing to get Satoi to stop and asking if Satoi is mad because he's assaulting Soutarou
Then he just leaves confirming all of Soutarou's insecurities and fears
SO really he should have just tried to understand what its like for his bf instead of making assumptions based on how his thought process works and thought more about Soutarou's mind process