Hey hii, i am curious what did you find funny in a comment section people's rage towards the cheater and tell him to die which ofcourse only a line we use in anger or when they were victim blaming?i am sorry bit i coulnt understand it what are you trying to say .
I found it funny (not ha ha funny but I can't believe the kind of things people say funny) that some people called the cheated an abuser. That he needed to die. I also found it funny when people stated that they are both horrible.
I believe that words have meaning and they are important- even the words people say in anger or just venting so I think it is a cop out when people say 'they only it out of anger'. If words didn't have meaning or impact kids won't be committing suicide base on what people say to them or have no lasting scar on their psyche. This is why I try not to attack à person but what they say or comment. I don't don't know who will be reading it.
Basically what I was trying to say (ineffectively) is that just because someone cheats doesn't make them a horrible person, a person deserving off death or an abuser- it makes them à cheater and because someone accept the cheating it doesn't make them weak. They can either be really forgiving or love the person more then they hate the fact that they cheats so they over look it.
Most of the thing i agree And that only for a victim.cheaters are horrible person who broke someone house it is coming from a person with a broken house .what was your reason of hurting the one you love can't that person satisfy you why is it that you have to go elsewhere to complete your lust .you hurt him day by day .even after forgiving the wound dont disapear .the person who cheat is a horible person. Plus yes we do say we should choose our word wisley but sometimes people like seme who cheat make me sick to my stomach they are that horrible .death is very easy .they need to have that pain and suffering that the person they cheated felt . Amd what was the reason for his cheating he wanted to see how much uke can forgive him .bulshit you dont cheat on someone you love to know how forgivable he is he is your lover dammit you jUST know that was just and excuse to whore around .so yes not many people are forgiving towrds cheater and they should not be once a cheater have hight percentage of cheating on you again.
I don't really think the seme was horrible in overdose. No I am not condoning cheating but I do believe people will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. The uke allowed the cheating because he prefer being with the seme instead of without- I don't think that made him weak or horrible, just human (the same applies to the seme). I don't see the world in black and white. To me the action of cheating is horrible not the person. There are few actions that makes a person à horrible person in my book- rape, child abuse, and human trafficking. Everything else depends on the facts and those involve. I know and accept that not everyone agrees with my views. I don't agree with your view on cheating but base on your comment it seems that it is something you are passionate about so I respect it.
I didnt said amything about cheating And its okay we will agree to disagree.but cjeating to me is equal as abuse its called mental abuse .cheating ruin people mentally their can not be any excuse for cheating if there people will have excuse for almost everything its just what trigger us the most And cheating triggers me just like real life rape and abuse.you can feel sorry for it or feel there must be a reason for them to do that but in the emd its still wrong.
It was nice talking to you .have a nice day
About to read overdose for the countless time, but like I do with every manga, I read some comments and I can't help laughing. Sometimes when I read comments I can't help but wonder if we all live in our own personal bubble where nothing bad happens and we always do the right thing. Yes cheating is consider wrong but since when does it equals death or that the person is deserving of death? And why do we assume the cheated is weak for accepting the fact that their lover cheats. To me they are only weak if they deny the obvious fact, close their eyes to it, justify their lover actions if they hate it or truly blames themselves. In my mind some people cheats. Some people are okay with it and some people are not so I find lots of the comment on the matter really funny.