I'm not a pervert as long as I don't make an action or says it verbally that can causes people to feel uncomfortable. My thoughts are privileged to mine and no abide by any rules.
I get you, it's okay to be a pervert as long as you don't do anything against anyones will or exploit others. I'm a hardcore dom, whether I'm with a girl or guy, I always wanna do crazy sexual things to them. Most can't handle what I do though, they think this pervy stuff is the same in reality as it is in a manga, but it's not. It's much more intense and the pain is real. I do sometimes feel bad, since some of the stuff I think up and wanna do is really bad, but then , I remember, it's who I am. Don't feel bad about being a dirty lil perv~ They enjoy sex better than anyone else =p
Never brought anything up with me and we were together 5 years.
I always feel like that because my mind is constantly in the gutter. Yaoi occupies 90% of my thoughts.