Sorry to interrupt bree don't want to critsize anything just want to say i thot you was a toad enter when the person was calling you a rape apologist and what did she get "fuck this shit" i am going to watch netflix. I know her entering in your conversation had nothing to do with you as she did it by her self but i dont think these words were necessary . It sounded rude to me and you are saying she is the rude one.
Yes but it was funny watching toad roast everyone. Considering Toad is way smarter, way more educated, and way more experienced than most of us on this site, I just relaxed and watched the show.
Thank you for the vote of confidence, superman, but I think Bree was expressing exactly what she thinks, and that's fine. It is a very different sort of angry self-expression than the other person used, and I'm actually fine with hearing her feedback. It doesn't bother me to hear it and I respect why she said it. I am a flawed person with many failings. All the criticisms that were leveled at me during this entire dialogue are true, and yet, so what? It is not a crime to be less intelligent than some people, lonelier than some, riddled with insecurity and self-doubt, proud, obnoxious, foolish, all those things of which I was accused and own as mine. That is the point. It's okay to be all of those things. We strive to improve ourselves, work harder, do better, but to deny that we are those things sets us up for narcissism. Because if we don't own it, then we project it onto others. Which was the entire point of all of this drama. So, a narcissist will never tolerate being exposed, but their behaviour must be exposed all the same. So, while Bree is right to say I should analyze my own behaviour, especially the part about bringing in outsiders, I would still do it. Abuse and all, I would still tell a narcissist what they are.
Oh yes and so sorry to interrupt between two of you. I was totally fine with her words until she said you are rude could you not talk like that. Where as in my perspective i think what she said was rude first so it confused me a little. Nothing more then that. And if you are fine with it. Then forget what i said and i apologize to bree too as an outsider i shouldn't have interupt :) peace. Oh and kikibe i don't know what you said was sarcasm or in a funny way but i do think she is really smart. The only think that bothered me the most in this conversation was calling someone rape aplogist just because they were expressing their views on yaoi love rape trope even if it was a fight blaming someone as rape aplogist i think was too much. It was nice talking to you all thanku for your feedback @ toad i appreciate it. And sorry for my bad english.
Whoops, there is one more point which I need to make. Bree does not need me to come in and take over her arguments for her. Bree is quite capable of defending herself brilliantly. I've seen her do it before, and knowing this, I did not interject my 2 cents worth into this fight on her behalf. To imply that I would do such a thing, robs her of her own agency. So, let's be clear. I came into this fight because I recognized the pattern of disdain and superciliousness as coming from a particular kind of troll.
Peace.
I'll bring the spinach dip for the next roast!
Sliced rump roast coming up ... ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
Yes! My taste buds are ready!
So this guy rapes his best friend whenever he's drunk and none of you find nothing wrong with that?