Technically, it is rape but the mc didn't reject it so it's somewhat consexual? And it's not 'whenever' since we only see this time, how did you know there were other times?
Heck, this isn't that bad compared to some other books. And forgive me for saying this but in the yaoi world, you're gonna have to get used to such things if you want to enjoy yaoi.(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
IIRC, it was implied that what he was dreaming before indeed actually happen(the scene where he had a wet dream). Though that could be wrong.
Anyway, I have no problem with rape in yaoi as long as it is within the theme. I've read yaoi that are way more messed up than this from the works of Harada which is probably 3 in my Twisted beyond Repair scale to Gengoroh Tagame who's probably 5. And I have no problem with those, in fact, I'm delighted but when it comes to manga such as this, that's where we're going to have a beef. Because, their actions are not fitting to the theme and genre. And in turn would make the seme a douche and the uke downright stupid depending on the case. And as a reader who analyses the manga dunno if others do, would find it stupid and illogical. (Though I would probably let it go if it's a smut since my brain wouldn't as receive much blood when I'm tugging the chicken.)
Say for example, Killing Stalking it is obvious that aside from it being yaoi, the focus is blood and gore and outright psychopathy. There's no problem with the plot but the fans, sometimes are the problem where it makes me question if we're even reading the same manga. As if the fans are suffering from Hybristophilia. Where they have unrealistically high expectations of how this story will end. Wishing and hoping is all well and good. Or sometimes will make up excuses why the machinations of Sangwoo's thought is like that. Just browse, tumblr and you'll find people adoring Columbine shooters for this reason.
When a manga this days, have good art and specially colored, for sure people are gonna like it regardless of the plot and rationality of the characters.
People say this is just a yaoi so you need to get used to it but isn't this also manga like any other that has to be critiqued if the story's making any sense at all?
I have no problem with rape in yaoi as long as it is within the theme. I've read yaoi that are way more messed up than this from the works of Harada which is probably 3 in my Twisted beyond Repair scale to Gengoroh Tagame who's probably 5. And I have no problem with those, in fact, I'm delighted but when it comes to manga such as this, that's where we're going to have a beef. Because, their actions are not fitting to the theme and genre. And in turn would make the seme a douche and the uke downright stupid depending on the case. And as a reader who analyses the (manga dunno if others do) would find it stupid and illogical. (Though I would probably let it go if it's a smut since my brain wouldn't receive as much blood when I'm tugging the chicken.)
Say for example, Killing Stalking it is obvious that aside from it being yaoi, the focus is blood and gore and outright psychopathy. There's no problem with the plot but the fans, sometimes are the problem where it makes me question if we're even reading the same manga. As if the fans are suffering from Hybristophilia. Where they have unrealistically high expectations of how this story will end. Wishing and hoping is all well and good. Or sometimes will make up excuses why the machinations of Sangwoo's thought is like that as if the he will change for good. Just browse tumblr and you'll find people adoring Columbine shooters for this reason.
When a manga this days, have good art and specially colored, for sure people are gonna like it regardless of the plot and rationality of the characters.
People say this is just a yaoi so you need to get used to it but isn't this also manga like any other that has to be critiqued if the story's making any sense at all?
It's about suspension of disbelief. If it's fiction you can root for a character who does something you would hate them for in the real world. You can even find sexual assault hot and it's okay because it's just fiction. It's kind of similar to rape fantasy if not as extreme. It's not like you want it to happen to you or anyone else in real life, but if that's what you find hot then it's okay to fantasize about it, draw it or write about it.
There's a big difference with this and Killing Stalking. The latter is intentional where that fantasy you're mentioning fits and this manga where you can't wrap your head around on what just happened. Not because rape is disturbing but how it was treated and. And the portrayal of which is not applicable to this genre. Do we not call out bullshit when something illogical happens in a movie? Can that not be applicable to yaoi as well?
Agreed. "People say this is just a yaoi so you need to get used to it but isn't this also manga like any other that has to be critiqued if the story's making any sense at all?" especially this. I dont found the logic when someone say that. So yaoi means non consensual sex between two or more man? and then all the manga I read that dont have some kind of sexual asault is shounen ai? not if it has explicit sex. Well, then what it is? And yes, if it has rape to me has to fit with the story and being logical. But is my point of view.
Well I guess you didn't learn a lot, if anything. Honestly, I'm fine with rape in yaois. Sometimes it bothers me depending on the plot but sometimes, it doesn't, because I've already developed the mindset that rape, is BAD in both worlds, but it's different because one world is real while the other, is not. I'm not gonna focus on bad part of the yaoi, what would be the fun in that? The focus on that part and it just ruins the whole thing.
First all its okay you find something wrong with it. Thats what you think you dont like romantacize rape. Okay i dont have problem with it. I hate cheating i cant think how can someome forgive anyone after being cheated but they still do. And after that who am I to judge.
People see romantacize rape and realistic potrayl of rape in a different light. When we saw a criminal abusing victim. Like what happnes in when rape is consider as truama in a manga we feel the victim pain. And his sadness and don't want him to end up with the criminal but in romantcize rape the victim most of the time is either attracted to the other at some point or dont mind what is happening to him and enjoy him self and by enjoying i mean exactly what i said, i am not saying about orgasm here. So these kind of manga are pure fiction and only for entertainment and nothing to be taken seriously because in real life first of all no one enjoy getting raped. There is a diffrence between judging a story if jts make any sense at all or ridiculed any manga that have romantacize rape in it. Sometimes stories with a good plot do have romantacize rape in it. Many of people who ridiculed people who enjoy romanatcize rape or that kind of Manga see it as rape is wrong no matter how it is and yes i agree it is wrong. When it happens in reality and people. Know that and yes this is a manga where we can enjoy fictions and our fantasies without getting judged you dont like fine by me. But i dont want to be dudged by people for liking something that they cant wrap their mind about or feeling small as what i am rreading and enjoying is something wrong. When i read manga even if its romantacize rape i dont only see ahh its has rape in it disgusting i see the whole point how uke is reacting, if he is actually denying it or if he is actually enjoying it and attracted to the seme you can see through these things when you read yaoi enough.no i won't say to people you need to get used to something you dont even like why would i but i will say it that without involving other you can express your point of view as when you ask people oh so you dont mind it or like i dont know how people can like it. It sounds like you are accusing those who dont mind romantacize rape. I do agree fiction affects reality in some aspects but it is when, when some manga is potrayed that way but some are pure fiction that has nothing to do with reality not even one percent. Which is for pure entertainment and need to be seen that way.
Well I guess your intellectual capacity doesn't allow to understand how rape remains condemnable even if we all know that it is indeed a yaoi trope, and one hard to avoid.
This might blow your mind but I've managed to had a lot of fun reading yaoi whilst still being aware and denouncing when one of the protagonist is a rapist.
She is referring to rape in here not about plot and writing. Here most of the people are talking about rape.
So this guy rapes his best friend whenever he's drunk and none of you find nothing wrong with that?