
This for real!!
If she isn't like a stand in for the fujo audience (yk someone to gawk and fangirl just like they do) they always find a reason to hate
To be fair, I think it's valid to dislike that she shared a secret that wasn't hers to tell, but you're definitely right about the internalized (and loudly externalized) misogyny in most of the bl spaces.

ya i wasnt really going for a completely sound argument just annoying that any time a woman is shown in bl ppl find reasons to shit on her. like come on man the focal point doesnt have to be roasting her over the fucking fire cus she knows her friend is interested in the guy so she set him up to easily get with him. if it was a guy wingman i guarantee the hate would be halved at least.

i usually ignore the ppl who wanna act like misogyny isnt alive and well in this scene cus its like as a woman who's been a fujo for the past like 15 years ive seen a lottt of comments about how women dont belong in these spaces/we're fetishists or just overall are hostile to women when theyre around and its like insane to see people act like it doesnt still happen. if anything i feel like theres been a resurgence of shitty gatekeeping lately and sometimes i gotta at least attempt to open their eyes to whats going on

Yeah your argument definitely wasn't sound and bring your devil's advocate mentality somewhere with meaning. This is obvious not a case of misogyny. A person who happened to be a woman made a choice that others didn't find pleasing. Rightfully so, but it seems as if you're the type to tell your best friend's secret without asking them first so I'm not surprised. But since this BL is just for the smut, ain't even that serious. Yall just be chatting sometimes. Can't even dislike a character's actions around you people anymore

Yeah your argument definitely wasn't sound and bring your devil's advocate mentality somewhere with meaning. This is obviously not a case of misogyny that you're "speaking up against" . A person who happened to be a woman made a choice that others didn't find pleasing. Rightfully so, but it seems as if you're the type to tell your best friend's secret without asking them first so I'm not surprised. But since this BL is just for the smut, ain't even that serious. Yall just be chatting sometimes. Can't even dislike a character's actions around you people anymore

i was just gonna go to bed and ignore this but im giggling cus its like o shit misogyny has been erased because detective cheesiness investigated the case and found the yaoi community not guilty so i guess we've defeated misogyny and gotten it out of the community
keep up the good work officer the streets are safe with you around o7

Chile, you are in way too deep. "The yaoi community is guilty of misogyny" but mind you, we're just people not liking that the ML's friend told some guy his secret. In real life you'd be crucified just the same. Why even bring the crimes of the whole community on something that definitely deserves a bit of distaste? But yeah, you DEFINITELY need to go to bed.
yall hate women so much if she lied u guys would be upset she caused misunderstandings between them and if she tells the truth shes a bitch for outing his secrets
not like the author clearly just wanted a short story so it fits the plot to have her streamline their relationship but w/e