"If you don't do X I will do Y" and "If you don't want me to do X, then do Y" is manipulation.
Nanjo think blond head is mistreating red head. Read this twice. Read this again. And again. And rethink about what you've read. Then about what you say.
Blond head say he will mistreat red head if Nanjo doesn't let him f*ck him.
Nanjo let blond head f*cking him to prevent red head to have to deal with blond head and being mistreat.
That's manipulation.
Nanjo doesn't like blond head. He doesn't want sex with blond head. Being forced to have sex with blond head because if not, blond head will mistreat Nanjo loved one's, is r*pe.
You don't need to have a knife on your throat to be manipulated.
You should apply everything you say to yourself.
Redhead takes nanjo to blondie to show him how he likes it. Nanjo thinking blondie is mistreating redhead is his own interpretation of things. He is a closet kink shamer and doesn't want to admit it. Has he asked the redhead if he's being violated? No. Is he making his own conclusion without involving the person that he's claiming to protect? Yes. Is this his own saviour complex driving his actions and not him being manipulated? Yes. He can say no. When has protecting someone meant giving up your own ass? What is on the line apart from the ass of a man that didn't mind disrespecting him like that? Love is not self sacrifice. If he wanted to protect redhead wouldn't telling him to stop fucking with blondie a better solution? Is expressing his discomfort about the whole shit and telling him about the threat not a solution??? All I see is a grown man being abominably stupid. Not everything is manipulation.
Another thing, let's stop enabling emotional fragility and act like it is not imperative that we say no even in tough situations. Being so mentally weak that a ridiculous deal made as a joke can make you feel that giving your ass is the only solution is weird. Saying no was always on the table.
You just prove you don't know what you're talking about.
I'm just going to assume you had nothing as a comeback and leave it at that. Great day.
That study that showed post pandemic literacy levels are abysmal is so true and this fandom and other bl fandoms should already be case studies. I don't know where critical thinking skills disappeared to when it comes to reading even if it's porn fiction.Most readers don't even read in between the lines anymore. Y'all like parroting terms like manipulation to look like you understand what you are reading when most of you don't do research on the shit. I swear I bet none of you have psychology degrees to back your shit up with years of intelligence. Y'all don't even look up stuff you just say it na hope it sticks.
My question is how is nanjo being manipulated by blondie?? Manipulation always requires a power dynamic of sorts. And bfr someone even says it just because nanjo's a bottom that doesn't mean he doesn't have power let's get that out of the way. The blondie made a deal as a joke and guy just accepted it. He says he likes the redhead but how can you say yes to your cheeks being pounded to 'protect' your beloved?Even if they ain't dating isn't that micro cheating?? Y'all are obsessed with bottoms being victims that you'll pull anything out of y'all's asses. Nanjo is a grown man that could have said no especially to a man he doesn't even like. He wasn't held at gun point. He wasn't coerced. He wasn't even tricked he just accepted a very ridiculous deal and y'all are acting like that's blondies fault. You say blondie is manipulative but don't say red head is manipulative for telling him to have a threesome he didn't want? Is manipulation only applicable when nanjo's the one being penetrated? Manipulation involves power plays, how is the blondie exerting power on nanjo when nanjo can always do what he wants??? Y'all just can't admit that bottoms like him are just stupid.
Blondie has a crush on nanjo. He was being playful and even he thought he'd be shot down when he made that deal so how is he being manipulative???
Another thing y'all need to stop learning about sex from porn. Saying nanjo is being raped is wild. We know he's never bottomed so why would y'all think it wouldn't be uncomfortable even when consent is given?? Penetrative sex for the first time ranges from uncomfortable to pain oftentimes depending on the receivers ability to relax. Nanjo is not relaxed at all through this and it's not blondies or his fault. His body is not used to getting dicked down yet and that's just normal first time things. Penetrative sex is a process tbh it takes time for the body to adjust just like so many things. Also the heteronormative sex positions for the first time in most BLS ain't it. For anal sex spreading your legs is really for the pros. For beginners the legs need to be closed so that the anal muscles can be stretched and open up the hole more so it's less painful during penetration. Doing missionary on an anal beginner is just terrible but that's the creators fault and all other bl creators for their lack luster interpretation of homo sex.
I know I'm about to be called a rape apologist and told to kill myself for thinking like this but do with this information what you may.