i honestly don't understand why ppl keep putting jaekyung so high on the red flag list and...

fye April 23, 2025 11:19 am

i honestly don't understand why ppl keep putting jaekyung so high on the red flag list and acting like he's the worst when i've seen so many worse???? i don't even think he is a red flag like that or even on the same level as them, he just has a shit personality

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    arkaived April 23, 2025 11:34 am

    sure gng he aint THE worst but he's one of the worsts fym he js has a shit personality? he literally sa-ed kim dan on chap.4 js cus he can't keep that shi in his pants? u tryna defend that bs?

    EdwardVamp April 23, 2025 12:24 pm

    That's such a delulu take

    wannabehimbo April 23, 2025 12:31 pm

    jst bc you've seen worse doesn't make him any better. Rape, superiority complex, and narcissism are all extreme red flags

    ミカエラ April 23, 2025 12:37 pm

    seeing worser characters doesn’t make him any better. He’s still a disgusting asshole

    fye April 23, 2025 4:00 pm

    when did he sa? it’s been a long time reading this, i thought they were in a consensual contract. i didn’t say he’s NOT a red flag or one of the worst or the fact that he’s better, i’m just saying there ARE other red and black flags out there like zhenya that ppl fawn over and completely forget did so much worse, i’m saying compared to characters like that ppl act like jaekyung is so much worse and higher on the list. i’m not defending the shit he did. i Genuinely!!!! just don’t understand why on a list they act like and put him above them, that’s literally all.

    wannabehimbo April 23, 2025 5:17 pm
    when did he sa? it’s been a long time reading this, i thought they were in a consensual contract. i didn’t say he’s NOT a red flag or one of the worst or the fact that he’s better, i’m just saying the... fye

    literally the 2-3 chapters, through coercion [pressuring, threats, bribery, etc], he threatens kim dan by saying he'd break his ankle if Dan didnt stop "struggling". Then when Kim Dan says he cant do this, JK says he wont be sent home "safe and sound". the pressuring/bribery would be him saying "so i guess you don't need that five grand after all."

    arkaived April 23, 2025 6:08 pm
    when did he sa? it’s been a long time reading this, i thought they were in a consensual contract. i didn’t say he’s NOT a red flag or one of the worst or the fact that he’s better, i’m just saying the... fye

    are we deadass? why mention another walking red flag like that somehow softens what jaekyung did? are we doing an offender vs offender battle now or what? like, 'he's bad, but look, this guy is worse!!!'? are u hearing urself? hope u're aware that harm is still harm no matter how many characters u stack behind it.

    and i dont think yk how popular jinx is cus that's literally main reason why he gets the most blows from the public out of every doodoo tops that has ever been created. jinx, is the most popular yaoi rn esp in social media, OF COURSE ppl will rank him higher than any other bl tops cus that's what happens when the work is known. hopefully
    that answers ur question, since u said u're genuinely confused but oh well.

    also, man, so what if ppl ranks jaekyung higher than other characs when they're all shitty and poorly written anyway? bruh u tryna scale the severity of ts like it's a leaderboard? crazy as hell

    wannabehimbo April 23, 2025 6:12 pm
    are we deadass? why mention another walking red flag like that somehow softens what jaekyung did? are we doing an offender vs offender battle now or what? like, 'he's bad, but look, this guy is worse!!!'? are ... arkaived

    preach

    fye April 23, 2025 6:22 pm

    dang bruh i was genuinely just wondering and wanted to know why, thanks for answering

    fye April 23, 2025 6:24 pm

    i'm cool w everything u said, i just wanted to know why

    arkaived April 23, 2025 6:36 pm
    i'm cool w everything u said, i just wanted to know why fye

    when i saw ur comment earlier, i was like, "girl don't fw me, what are u implying?......" glad it went this way i thought u're the kind that's gon be so mad if they get called out holy crap have a good day, sorry for the outburst lol

    fye April 23, 2025 6:46 pm
    when i saw ur comment earlier, i was like, "girl don't fw me, what are u implying?......" glad it went this way i thought u're the kind that's gon be so mad if they get called out holy crap have a good day, so... arkaived

    no ur fine i’m glad u said everything u said bc i know there are ppl that fully support him and don’t see anything wrong w his behaviour, so it’s good ur actually calling ppl out fr u cool as hell. and now i know i didn’t articulate my thoughts that well and ask what i wanted to know properly so i can fix that

    Lumijpg April 23, 2025 7:10 pm

    To me he’s just an asshole, like he’s a red flag yeah but there are definitely worse red flag tops

    ミカエラ April 23, 2025 8:47 pm
    To me he’s just an asshole, like he’s a red flag yeah but there are definitely worse red flag tops Lumijpg

    Well they are all garbage. You can’t compare trash with trash

    Vale April 24, 2025 2:04 am

    I agree JK is a jerk but he is not the worse ml ever at all. I think part of this idea is because people like to see Kim Dan as having no fault in the situation. But he totally agreed to the contract and even though he was treated like trash he fell in love with this man in the most delulu ways. He would have stayed happily living with him as a whore, but that misunderstanding of the spray happened and woke him up but he reallyyyy liked JK and all the crumbs he was giving in the past (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    EdwardVamp April 24, 2025 2:32 am
    I agree JK is a jerk but he is not the worse ml ever at all. I think part of this idea is because people like to see Kim Dan as having no fault in the situation. But he totally agreed to the contract and even t... Vale

    I would personally say that the biggest shitty asshole and red flag is the author for openly romanticizing sexual violence like this tbh

    Vale April 24, 2025 5:13 am
    I would personally say that the biggest shitty asshole and red flag is the author for openly romanticizing sexual violence like this tbh EdwardVamp

    Yes, I mean it's not like the author did something new, it is a setting that often happens in stories that involve a redemption arc, some pull it off well and others don't. So i don't think the author deserves too much hate either because the story isn't over yet.Time will tell if there is a satisfying ending for all this but so far the story is still kinda popular so the author is not doing that bad of a job with the storytelling imo so far.

    EdwardVamp April 24, 2025 11:03 am
    Yes, I mean it's not like the author did something new, it is a setting that often happens in stories that involve a redemption arc, some pull it off well and others don't. So i don't think the author deserves ... Vale

    Oh please, no one would read it if it wasn't pretty drawn The only satisfying ending would be if they didn't end up together, because their whole "relationship" is a combination of violence, abuse, blackmail and probably stockholm syndrome tbh. Not to mention that I'm guessing from the comments that after 70 episodes it still hasn't moved anywhere. Ofc it's popular, because apart from the drawing, it's a prime example of gay fetishism, which is very popular among women, so. And I find this kind of romanticization of abuse and violence (even in combination with the impact it has) to be a pretty bad job by the author. Overall, it's a crappy story, because if the characters had even a shred of brains and self-respect, the whole story would fall apart. I hope this doesn't sound too mean to you personally, I just can't help myself when someone tries to defend it lmao

    Vale April 24, 2025 2:30 pm
    Oh please, no one would read it if it wasn't pretty drawn The only satisfying ending would be if they didn't end up together, because their whole "relationship" is a combination of violence, abuse, blackmail a... EdwardVamp

    I mean i can see why people hate it, i just think it's an exaggeration because the story isn't finished yet. People need to give authors a chance to tell the story they have developed. Ofc it's hard to see the whole picture rn because it's ongoing. But it's also delulu to think that they won't end up together atp. If people are reading to see if JK dies or something, that is a waste of time lol. And i think it's wrong to say it's a women thing to write stories like this for bls. There are soooo many wholesome bls written by women. Plus I invite you to try reading stories written by men or heterosexual (josei) stories. Now those are the real trash they are far worse than any bl I have read

    EdwardVamp April 24, 2025 3:47 pm
    I mean i can see why people hate it, i just think it's an exaggeration because the story isn't finished yet. People need to give authors a chance to tell the story they have developed. Ofc it's hard to see the ... Vale

    But this story is not meant to be "redeemed". It will always be shit because it is a story about romanticizing abuse, violence, blackmail and stockholm syndrome, as I wrote before. It doesn't matter if it's finished or not, because we all know they will end up together. That's also why I wrote that the only satisfying ending would be if bottom gained the absolute minimum of self-worth and walked away from this definition of toxicity. But that is, ofc, an ending that fans of this garbage wouldn't like. If I overdo it, it's like KS ended with Sangwoo and Bum living happily together. Like wtf bro at the same time, clearly, 90% of yaoi/bl is written/created by women, so it's clear that you can't say it's bad because of them. However, I'm talking about this specific type of explicit fetishization, where they're not even personalities, just puppets with zero self-worth and the entire story is built on the principle of (violent) sex and zero use of the brain. It's basically just rapė porn in fancy form tbh