Ian deserves the world

Womankisser April 23, 2025 3:15 am

I genuinely can’t with this fandom bc most fans are just tj glazers trying to put their fingers down Jo fans throats. Like I’m tired of “team tj this team Jo that” this story is about Ian healing. I do believe that TJ and Ian loved each other once but they both became “monsters” as Ian describes after the car sex scene. They feed into each other. Ian doesn’t want to live that life anymore. And in the beginning of the story tj buys the house he wants to live in with Ian. But then we see one of his gang men saying Ian would hate this. TJ is holding onto whatever he can get. In the music video on DOYAK YouTube account we see tj reaching for Ian’s hand and instead of waiting for Ian to come to him he grabs him by the wrist. TJ is a very complex character and I do believe he loved youngwoo but he’s not willing to let him be his own person. He wants to control him so that he doesn’t get away.

On Ian’s hand he is trying desperately to get better and have a normal life. As a fandom people hardly see the true horrible things that Ian has went through. Not to say TJ hasn’t but Ian has genuinely lived a nightmare. I think the story of him and David is genuinely devastating. All Ian wanted was to be happy. We know that David raped him and that’s when his drug addiction got bad. Ian realized he loved TJ after he killed David and they started to feed into TJ’s obsession and Ian’s recklessness after they got “together”. They don’t know how to love each other outside of animalistic ways. Ian realized that when he went to prison. He decided he wanted to be better but TJ doesn’t want to mature. In conclusion though Ian is the character who needs to be aknowledged more. I think he needs to be with Jo. Jo has opened up a new life for him and given him the tender love that him and TJ couldn’t give each other. I really don’t have a huge preference but I am more Jo leaning but I wouldn’t be upset if TJ was endgame if executed correctly. In short I think TJ and Ian’s story is tragic more than anything. If we see more of tj I would honestly love to see him HEAL not get a new love interest if he and Ian don’t end up together but I want to see him get better. Or if tj and Ian are endgame I would like to see him truly try to change for Ian. But at the end of the day I want all of the characters fo be happy. especially my Shayla Ian

Responses
    kiyoomi April 25, 2025 10:38 am

    finally, someone who can see how bad tj and ian are for eachother. i honestly think that tj and ian won't work out unless tj will have a MAJOR MAJOR character development. tj has become a shackle to ian that he's trying so hard to escape. if they do end up together, i think it'll be due to emotional attachment/trauma bond. i personally like jo better, he doesn't need any major character development at all as he is already good enough, and also try to understand ian despite the little time they have known eachother. i honestly don't get the hate abt jo at all. it irritates me how they preach tj's wrongdoings while blindly hating on jo for the most basic thing.

    kiyoomi April 25, 2025 10:39 am
    finally, someone who can see how bad tj and ian are for eachother. i honestly think that tj and ian won't work out unless tj will have a MAJOR MAJOR character development. tj has become a shackle to ian that he... kiyoomi

    and it honestly might be better for ian to end up alone than end up with tj tbh

    Womankisser April 25, 2025 1:09 pm
    finally, someone who can see how bad tj and ian are for eachother. i honestly think that tj and ian won't work out unless tj will have a MAJOR MAJOR character development. tj has become a shackle to ian that he... kiyoomi

    Yes yes yes I absolutely agree. They always have something to say about Jo like the tent scene when he finished on Ian’s face. Like okay are we gonna ignore how TJ just treats him like shit all the time and lies and manipulates him to his face? I’ll never understand “team tj” because he and Ian clearly feed into each others toxicity and obsession. And now that the story has progressed it’s extremely one sided. Jo looks at Ian like he’s precious and he wants him to be happy. Tj looks at Ian like a possession in most scenes.

    kiyoomi April 25, 2025 2:05 pm
    Yes yes yes I absolutely agree. They always have something to say about Jo like the tent scene when he finished on Ian’s face. Like okay are we gonna ignore how TJ just treats him like shit all the time and l... Womankisser

    righttt i mean it's okay to like a ship and a character that has it's own complexities, but why are they justifying tjs actions, turning blind eye on them just so they could be a hypocrite and hate on jo everything that they claim jo has done that they hate him for is literally what tj has done in a worser way(js like how they claim jo as a stalker when tj literally monitored both tj and ian lmfao). i mean sure, jo has his own flaws but y are they hating jo while preaching tj bffr

    kiyoomi April 25, 2025 2:06 pm
    righttt i mean it's okay to like a ship and a character that has it's own complexities, but why are they justifying tjs actions, turning blind eye on them just so they could be a hypocrite and hate on jo everyt... kiyoomi

    both jo amd ian****

    Womankisser April 25, 2025 7:03 pm
    righttt i mean it's okay to like a ship and a character that has it's own complexities, but why are they justifying tjs actions, turning blind eye on them just so they could be a hypocrite and hate on jo everyt... kiyoomi

    Exactly it’s so refreshing when another wet sand reader actually reads for the art and amazing story telling capability

    saddays May 2, 2025 7:20 am

    preach oh my gosh, I’m so tired of ppl being team TJ like are they even seeing Ian when they say that? Are they even thinking of what Ian wants? They’re just like TJ it’s so fucked up how much his cheerleaders act just like him. I don’t think these ppl even have the capacity to understand what they’re reading. Ian is obviously trying to recover from his messed up past that just keeps coming back bc TJ can’t move tf on like the grown man he is, but Ian also needs to move on bc he’s enabling TJ’s stupid behavior and harming Jo even more

    kiyoomi May 2, 2025 10:34 am
    preach oh my gosh, I’m so tired of ppl being team TJ like are they even seeing Ian when they say that? Are they even thinking of what Ian wants? They’re just like TJ it’s so fucked up how much his cheerle... saddays

    REAL, I FEEL LIKE THEY'RE JS ROOTING FOR TJ FOR HIS LOOKS, NOT CONSIDERING HOW IT WOULD BE FOR IAN. i honestly despise tj stans more than tj himself especially those who hate jo when their stan literally did the exact same thing but WORSER

    kiyoomi May 2, 2025 10:38 am
    preach oh my gosh, I’m so tired of ppl being team TJ like are they even seeing Ian when they say that? Are they even thinking of what Ian wants? They’re just like TJ it’s so fucked up how much his cheerle... saddays

    they're just a bunch of tj dickriders atp without even analyzing the story. i don't have anything against those ianxtj shippers but it's just annoying how they constantly hate on jo while justifying tjs actions. they're literally a bunch of hypocrites

    Womankisser May 2, 2025 4:00 pm
    preach oh my gosh, I’m so tired of ppl being team TJ like are they even seeing Ian when they say that? Are they even thinking of what Ian wants? They’re just like TJ it’s so fucked up how much his cheerle... saddays

    EXACTLY sometimes I think the TJ fans really don’t have the mental capacity to read wet sand because it’s so complex and it feels like a bunch of bj Alex and jinx fans came over here. TJ is an attractive character but THEY ALL ARE. I don’t dislike tj I love his character and the way he is written he’s a very thought out realistic character. Istg so many wet sand readers just don’t realize the TRUE DEPTH of the story.

    saddays May 3, 2025 9:21 am
    they're just a bunch of tj dickriders atp without even analyzing the story. i don't have anything against those ianxtj shippers but it's just annoying how they constantly hate on jo while justifying tjs actions... kiyoomi

    dude yesss the tj fans who always hate on jo really aggravate me, yk what they say about jo? that he’s a rapist, mind you the moment they are talking about is him busting his load on ians face ONCE right after he fell asleep after finishing having consensual sex, broke back mountain style in the tent lol

    saddays May 3, 2025 9:24 am
    EXACTLY sometimes I think the TJ fans really don’t have the mental capacity to read wet sand because it’s so complex and it feels like a bunch of bj Alex and jinx fans came over here. TJ is an attractive ch... Womankisser

    Yes it’s definitely those BJ Alex/Jinx/Low Tide in Twilight, all those rapey BL apologists that are rooting for TJ it’s genuinely so concerning that queer media is so heavily represented this way. I genuinely wonder why Korean queer media is dominated so heavily by male SA and abuse. We don’t usually see that in the west.

    kiyoomi May 3, 2025 10:04 am
    dude yesss the tj fans who always hate on jo really aggravate me, yk what they say about jo? that he’s a rapist, mind you the moment they are talking about is him busting his load on ians face ONCE right afte... saddays

    and now they're hating on both jo and ian in the raws since apparently to them, tj is the only one who should show up in the story lmfao(tiktok tj stans are annoying fr, they be "wheres tj" girl he's clearly not there) they hate on jo for lacking depth and being boring, but when the chapter is centered around jo's development they hate on him bcs tj didn't show up in the chapter(I'm not generalizing all tj stans btw). 2 raw chapters of the new season are out, and joxian are constantly getting hate if they want tj to show up so bad, they should've took over doyaks story and illustrated it themselves lmao(like literally tho, they literally got a lot of tj panels/moments in the prev seasons, let jo have his character build up for gods sake)

    kiyoomi May 3, 2025 10:07 am
    dude yesss the tj fans who always hate on jo really aggravate me, yk what they say about jo? that he’s a rapist, mind you the moment they are talking about is him busting his load on ians face ONCE right afte... saddays

    well i do think that what jo did is some form of sa tho but no to the point that it's rape(which is still bad), but apparently i heard people say that the author said that it wasnt rape(idk if its true since im not active on x)

    saddays May 4, 2025 6:00 am
    and now they're hating on both jo and ian in the raws since apparently to them, tj is the only one who should show up in the story lmfao(tiktok tj stans are annoying fr, they be "wheres tj" girl he's clearly no... kiyoomi

    Oh my goshhh the tiktok TJ Stan’s are the ones that pmo the most I can’t stand them, each time I read their comments it feels like I’m an outcast because they practically live under Wetsand TikTok content. Also where can I read the raws? I’ve been dying to know the after math of that cliffhanger

    saddays May 4, 2025 6:00 am
    well i do think that what jo did is some form of sa tho but no to the point that it's rape(which is still bad), but apparently i heard people say that the author said that it wasnt rape(idk if its true since im... kiyoomi

    I wholeheartedly respect your opinion, because SA should 100% be taken seriously. This ofc, is my personal opinion, but what Jo did was not anything Ian would mind. Ian has previously told TJ to have sex with him to the point where it causes him to pass out, this is a hyperbole I’m sure, and it’s just said in the heat of the moment. But seeing as it was said it can be seen as a pass idk tho

    kiyoomi May 4, 2025 6:37 am
    Oh my goshhh the tiktok TJ Stan’s are the ones that pmo the most I can’t stand them, each time I read their comments it feels like I’m an outcast because they practically live under Wetsand TikTok content... saddays

    https://newtoki468.com/webtoon/48561738/Wet-Sand-%EC%9B%BB%EC%83%8C%EB%93%9C-71%ED%99%94

    there are 2 new raw chaps