Idk am I losing my mind?

Just a manhawa and Manga fan April 18, 2025 7:22 pm

Like just today I was with my mom I was trying on some pj's and my dad said"this is much better that those other pj's which were so tight they look like they're about to burst from her thighs(he was talking Abt my leggings)" idk I just felt so disgusted and said that I only wear leggings under my night gown(that reaches to my knees in hight) or under my over sized shirts and hoodies then he said"even so it's so tight you shouldn't wear that in the house" I said that this is the house i live in and I need to feel comfy and he said "if that was so then we would be naked rn so you shouldn't wear that" idk I just feel so confused like tf ,not to mention how my own mom wears tighter pants and booty shorts (yes he even stopped me from wearing shorts that reach to my knees,stating the same reasoning) and she even bought me the leggings her self and said that they look great on me like a yr ago idk I just went to my room and kinda just cried silently idk like does he have a point idk...

Responses
    Your stressed anselever April 18, 2025 7:57 pm

    Omg im so sorry you experienced that, no he doesn’t have a point that is absolutely disgusting to say!!
    If your mom is a support or doesn’t know you might want to consult with her and tell about his comments. (I know you say you were with your mom) Telling how you feel to her might help elevate the problem but I do hope your situation gets better!!
    The problem isn’t you, it’s your dads outlook on fashion and girls

    Ugly_Rose April 18, 2025 8:22 pm

    no, holy shit god no!! Like someone said tell your mom about this and how you feel and if needed to try and to record what your dad says to you if it continues happing cause it could lead to worse shit happing, I hope nothing else happens to you and you shouldn't feel that way!! He is supposed to be your father not some random creep you meet on the street... legit hope shit gets better for you

    Just a manhawa and Manga fan April 18, 2025 10:15 pm
    Omg im so sorry you experienced that, no he doesn’t have a point that is absolutely disgusting to say!!If your mom is a support or doesn’t know you might want to consult with her and tell about his comments... Your stressed anselever

    Tysm for the support I'll try talking to her tmrw for sure