Delete your history always. You never know when someone will use your devices even if they don't ask. The obvious is don't watch ecchi or yaoi in the living room. (Lol) If you buy manga or anime hide your collection. Or if you buy digital put it on a flash drive or something (and don't lose it). Stuff like that. Only read or watch when alone. It's easy simple things but I was careless as hell when I was younger.
I don't care what others think of my preference if they caught me reading. I prefer to be a silent reader, so when I get caught, I either denied or ignore it. However, when my privacy is invaded, i.e they checked my browser and so on then they have breached my trust. Family or close friends, they have lost my trust. For a fucking yaoi.
Once I was reading kuroneko no kareshi and you know it shows everything, its smutty mature well drawn sex and my 5 years old sis come and asked me what that guy was doing to that other guy and I told her nervously he was hitting him on his ass because he was a bad boy and she never asked me about it anymore and I sometimes DUDES WATCH GAY PORN AND MY FATHER AND MOTHER CAN BE LIKE NEAR ME OR WE CAN BE IN THE SAME ROOM.and that's scary but I do it anyway but not often and I'm afraid of getting caught then I'd they know what I read I'm dead.
But yeah I don't share my hobby with anyone except some stranger who are fujoshis like me on the internet.
Not my family not my friends not anyone except one friend but she's not that much into it or idk she's hiding it probably not sure but yeah.(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
I would say I have an invasion privacy from my family not like I don't have privacy but I mean anyone in my family just walks into my room, uses my electronics and one time I ordered a cute eraser online and when I got home from school my package with the eraser was opened by my parents and they asked me why I bought the eraser. I want to buy yaoi manga but I can't take chances
┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ Long story short I'm kinda secretly a pervy Fujoshi that loves yaoi yuri and ecchi but I don't want anyone especially my friends/family to know How ( ̄∇ ̄") hard is it to like have this double persona online? And do any of you guys do it too???