Like yeah, she's suffered, but she wasn't branded with a curse seal as a child or doomed to serve the family that killed her father. Everyone jumps to try to help her when she gets hurt but no one gives a shit when the same thing happens to anyone else. I still really like Naruto as a character but he is also annoying af half the time
Plus, there's a difference between losing your parents at birth without ever getting to know them, as Naruto did, and losing them (or at least your father) as a child, as Neji did. I would argue that the second situation is much worse
I feel highkey sorry for Neji and it's fucking idiotic for Naruto to say that Hinata has suffered as much as him