Yeah I definitely wouldn't wanna marry someone who acted like that it's so toxic
Like no bitch it’s not consensual if saying no would mean he’d have to tell the secret he’s trying to hide, he’s cornered into saying yes and he’s too honest to be saying “stop I’ll tell you the secret” and then not tell or not tell the truth, so wanting to keep the secret equaled putting up with it, that doesn’t make it him wanting to participate in this type of play especially when it’s not just play but ash’s attempt at pulling his secret out of him, he woudlnt use it as a “punishment” to pull the secret out of he knew Lyle enjoyed and wanted it so he purposely did smth he knew Lyle didn’t want
Ye and I’m annoyed this behavior wasn’t addressed, Lyle just proposes and ash is just happy, instead of having a moment to reflect what he just did and how he made his partner feel
Bro the side story soured the proposal moment cause whys ash not stopping even tho Lyle is clearly not into it, and whys he using sex to get smth out of him, like congrats you pulled a proposal out of him after making him cry doing smth he doesn’t wanna that he only put up with out of stubbornness cause he didn’t wanna be proposing at a time like that and after you not stopping even tho he repeatedly told you to………….